Well I broke up with my ex about a month ago now and I moved onto this new girl and I'm very attracted to her when we kiss I can keep a nice firm erection but once it comes down to sex I can't keep my erection. By the way I'm 16. But with my ex I had no problem we could go for hours at it and I would be fine. My new girlfriend and me have tried about 4 times first time it stayed hard and now it won't. She is more attractive then my ex so no problem there and she's a lot tighter but I want to share relations with her and I can't so any help would be nice thank you. Oh and also I pre-cum a lot so might that be a factor? And if so how do I calm down the rate of which that comes out?
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Firstly, it's absolutely nothing to do with the pre-cum. at all..
The problem is psychological I'm thinking... like u say, ur erection stays up to the point of sex. I wonder if you still have strong feelings for your ex?? If I'm emotionally attached to someone I just can't do anything with anyone else.. my body just won't let me. Maybe it's the same for you?
The other thing I'm thinking is that perhaps maybe ur having a touch of performance anxiety. Do you really worry that it might go down every time u make out?? Rather than jumping straight into sex.. try foreplay instead.
HTH
Good luck :)))
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Well yeah my ex was the longest relationship I ever had and the first girl I had sex with but I rarely think of her so I don't think I'm attached and we do have foreplay she will give me oral or play with me as well as me doing the same but no matter what when its time to put it in it goes down. I'm also pretty uncoordinated and I always have a hard time finding the hole since im pretty new to the sexual experience and that kinda makes me nervous and makes me less hard. Any tips on how I know I will find and get it in there?
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Yeah dude,... just tell her to put it in... :)
Failing that, just start at the bottom of her slit n push in....
Failing that, just start at the bottom of her slit n push in....
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Your probably too stressed.....if shes tighter than your last gf...than that should stimulate you wayyyyy more........a hard on isn't something you can force....it's just natural..
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