Okay I am 15 and I am turning 16 this year. I have been questioning myself for about 5 months. I have been wondering If I am a lesbian for quite a while.
Why I think I am a lesbian:
-get turned on by lesbian porn
-turned on by girls
-when I was small i played that my barbies would make out and it would turn me on
-fantisize about girls,
Why I think I am straight
-I have always had crushes on boys
-have had urges to have sex with boys
- when i was small i would pretend make out with a boy
- can fantisiseze about boys sometimes
Okay so heres the deal I don't find boys with abs attractive, and I am not turned on by boys in porn, I am turned on by girls in porn but not in real life. Thinking of doing something with my friends like making out or having sex with them repulses me, but thinking about having sex with a man is something I have been wanting to do for a while. But the thing that confuses me even more is that girls check out guy's butts and I don't but i don't check out girls either, only if it is comparing myself to her, like oh she looks better in that shirt than i do because she has big boobs. But in real life Girls dont arouse me only while masturbating. I have never had an orgasm fantisizing about either sex. I like flirting with guys and when i see a guy that i like i just stare at them. But I am so confused, is this just puberty messing me up. But then i remember when i was 11 years old i would want to see a woman in the television naked and not the man, but the thing is I am not repulsed by a man either. Im so confused...
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hmm... well i can certainly say that i would be confused too... try to figure out whether or not you do definitive things that would cause you to be considered lesbian. but remember, there's nothing wrong with feeling that way. hope you figure out soon:)
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hey, im 15 and lesbian, I think you might be bisexual is alright to be confused and it normal that girls get turned on by lesbian porn not that im lesbian I a but that's not why im lesbian, why I thought I was lesbian
- I get turned on
-I get very weak to even talk to my gf
-lesbian porn
- I am not a bi so I like girls,ad there is nothing wrong with it
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I don't think your reactions are odd at all - and I don't think you are gay. I can completely identify with you although I'm male and straight - the other way around. I too get turned on by watching gay porn if the guys are fit, even though I have never fancied a man or wanted to sleep with one. I consider this normal, even though most guys would not normally admit it. I have had many girlfriends and have been married, and the whole thing about prefering to see women naked rather than men seems pretty universal? The women I have known tell me that men's genitals are really only attractive completely naked when aroused, whereas women are attractive even when not aroused. The advice for men is to keep your undies on until you are ready for action - LOL :-)
When I and my friends were young the hormones were coursing fast and loose - and we did indeed discuss it and mess around. I was turned on almost all of the time, regardless of whether I had satisfied myself recently or not. It wasn't uncommon to get aroused for no reason at all, (once I even came in my trousers during a maths exam, for no reason at all!) and the whole angst about sexuality and the power of living with it was something me and all my mates dealt with best as we could, mostly by masterbating several times a day, and sometimes even together if we had hit the alcohol - LOL. This didn't make any of us gay and still today none of us are.
My advice as an old timer is to quit worrying if you can, do whatever comes naturally, explore your physicality to the full - nothing is out of bounds - so you can live a healthy, fruitful and full sexually liberated life. Looking back as an old timer with the light of experience, I would say that, despite all the messing around we did when young, we should have liberated ourselves even more, rather than getting all het up and guitly about it :-)
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Confusedgirl41, You're a teenager and like many you're questioning your sexuality and that's totally normal. You could be straight, bisexual, or lesbian all of which are fine, but you're going through a lot of changes and your body is full of hormones and that's why you're confused. It's absolutely fine, if you have any other questions feel free to message me.
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