Do you lose your Virginity when you do it with a girl?

I mean girl with a girl. Xx

It depends on your definition of virginity. Most 50 year old lesbians wouldn't consider themselves virgins even if they have never had sex with a man. So it depends on why virginity is important to you. If you want to save yourself for your husband on your wedding night then any sort of sex before that goes against that idea because you are being sexual with someone else. Just like having anal sex and claiming to be a virgin strikes me as lying to yourself. For me, I think too much emphasis is placed on definitions of virginity, hymens etc. Why do you want to be a virgin? Does making love with a girl at this stage of your life and outside of a committed relationship go against your values? If not and you have the emotional maturity to have sex then that's ok. But sex with a girl isn't sex lite. It is real sex with all the emotional consequences of real sex, just you can't get pregnant. But you can get hurt and it is real sex, not something you play arou.d with until you feel ready to have sex with boys. That may not be the easy answer you were hoping for. But sex is complicated. There are no easy answers. All the best.