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I'm often asked if it's OK to lick dried semen. Some people like getting messy and sweaty during sex. I see couples all

over the board from "we'd die before we'd even touch that stuff," to "when we're spending the afternoon enjoying each other, it's not

uncommon for her to want to masturbate me, and vice versa. I'll come all over my chest and after we play "wrestling" we have "stuff"

all over ourselves. She's shown me what a turn on it is to lick each other "clean."

What would YOU tell someone if they asked you if it was OK for their girlfriend (or horror of horror) their boyfriend, to lick up cum.

Straight guys, often add whipped cream and other food to the mix, and unless you sterilize your skin, there may well be semen left

behind. Is it OK to eat the food, with some cum here and there, with you eating off of her or her eating off of you. As the practice

goes you haven't lived till you've tried this, but is it safe? I'm not asking an exam question. Answers vary, and booklets on a counter

somewhere can be wrong. Doctors vary in opinions all the time. Frankly, I'm more interested in what people HAVING SEX think.

(That wasn't a jab at doctors. I'm sure they are magicians in bed, but they are far from the norm in numbers and opinions.)

So spill the goods. What would you say? I love passing on your opinions to questions that remain iffy.

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i for one love it when my girl friend eats my semen. i often come in her mouth and she swallows it. as the other way around, i wouldnt lick my own cum off of her. after i climax i dont want to be near that stuff.
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Kain,

Why such a strong opinion. YOU make the stuff, and it is not excrement. It's a body fluid like blood, sweat, saliva, tears, lymph, and urine. The funniest is urine because so many people find it repulsive. Urine in a healthy person is sterile, and certainly one of the cleanest things we excrete (I'm not suggesting a piss and coke, just something you should know).

And the filthiest part of a human is the mouth. It contains samples of nearly every horrible "germ" you can imagine, Staph, Strep, and the list goes on and on. If two people walk into an ER, one with a dog bite from an animal whose had all it's shots and isn't Cujo, while the other person comes in with a human bite. They'll treat the human bite quite seriously. You should see some of the infections that arise from a person's bite that breaks the skin and gets to the blood. The mouth is dirtier than toilet seats (I still won't kiss them.... until I get to know them better). The body is an amazing organism, and your skin is your first line of defense, so clean scratches and use an antiseptic. However, if you are bitten by a "stranger" and it breaks the skin, think about when you had your last tetanus booster, I'd strongly suggest you get your behind into an ER for a better look and a shot.

Think of this the next time you're a little drunk and have your tongue down some strangers throat. You'd be better off asking for an introduction to the toilet seat....... again, a joke. I'm not suggesting kissing toilet seats, but look it up.

I always question students that give me such absolute answers. Perhaps they know something that I don't, maybe they know 380 sexual positions. (We become best pals until I have them all written down, then sadly I'm looking for a test subject. You know, the one with the two chickens and the cow might be a big lie, plus I have live chickens and borrow a cow, and still find a test subject that won't run away screaming. Guys sometimes saying "It's all for the sake of science" doesn't quite get you there.

C
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Dear Jesus,

I haven't a clue why you or anyone can say that semen isn't harmful. Semen fresh from someone with HIV can be very dangerous, and depending on YOU and YOUR PARTNER, you can choose how you will proceed from there. HiV is usually introduced into the bodily via body fluids, but in very different numbers. Saliva may have HIV in it but in such small numbers that it doesn't pose a threat. On the crazy chance that both you and your partner have open cuts or sores in your mouth, changes things. The fluids all of us have to pay special attention to are blood and semen because those are so frequently exchanged. Yes, it's in body fluids, but these two are the ones you'll be dealing with most. I don't know where you're getting your semen, but unless it's from someone HIV free, there IS a risk.

I posed the question because my students often want me to give them some kind of definitive answer. In many cases there isn't one. Oral sex is often the subject of questions. Yes, there's HIV in saliva, but when it hits your stomach (presuming you're normal), it is killed by stomach acid, BUT for years kids have been bringing me dozens of fliers, each with varying answers. Most tell kids not to brush their teeth prior to receiving oral sex. If you brush your teeth you can make small cuts in your gums, and cheeks etc, and have an elevated risk. I don't have the answer. I wish I did. I spend a lot of time talking to virologists and reading available material. We've had a lot more time to study HIV and its transmission, BUT it's next to impossible to find sexually active people who limit themselves to oral sex, so the question becomes a tangled mess. When I'm at a loss for a GREAT answer I turn to everyone from all age groups, and different levels of education etc.

One thing I find shameful are the numbers of students with the MISINFORMATION that HIV has a "CURE." Please believe me, THERE IS NO CURE FOR HIV. WE DON'T EVEN HAVE A VACCINE TO PREVENT CATCHING THE DISEASE. When I talk to groups across the board, far too many think that because we have some better drugs to slow the virus down, they are a cured and/or incapable of spreading the disease.

Your letter troubles me. I always ask groups, "How many of you believe that AIDS has a cure?" (when they're not students many don't know what HIV is and how it's related to AIDS, and rather than getting into an explanation that takes away valuable time, I use AIDS. I can only assume that you're one of the people who has been BADLY MISINFORMED. THERE IS NO CURE FOR HIV OR AIDS, AND MOST VIROLOGISTS BELIEVE IT'S A VERY LONG WAY OFF. THEY REST THEIR HOPES ON FINDING A VACCINE, SO THAT WE CAN VIRTUALLY STOP THE DISEASE IN ITS TRACKS (by ending future infection, HOWEVER, THEY WON'T "CURE" THOSE ALREADY INFECTED.

HIV rates are all over the place depending on who does the data collection, but one thing I've read and been told by those doing the research is that there is a RISE IN HIV INFECTION as more and more people think we have a "magic potion."

To all of you: If there was a cure for HIV/AIDS don't you think it would be the banner headline across the world? Do you think curing HIV/AIDS would be something doctors would say, "Ho Hum, that's nice. What shall we cure next?" This would be the biggest story to hit the world. People are still dying in large numbers in Africa and other poor areas of the world.

All I can think is that either you're mocking the question or that you're one of the poor misinformed people who has a feeling we've cured this problem and just not bothered to make it public. if you care about your body don't pay attention to all the snake oil salesmen who claim they have the cure. They want your money. I don't care if you can find 500 references to an AIDS cure, show me one from a legitimate doctor with CDC approval. So many have died horrible deaths. I'd love to drag the m****s selling you vitamins and calling them cures, to a Hospice that has AIDS patients preparing to die. Better yet, why don't YOU GO and visit some of the patients who seldom get visitors, not to cross examine them, but to TALK WITH THEM. They'll tell you heartbreaking stories about spending every cent they had going to Mexico or Asia where the cures "are not illegal, like in the USA," and oddly enough when you run out of money, they can no longer help you. I have met a lot of HIV positive men and women, many college age, who started barebacking, because someone told them that if you get HIV there's a cure. Libido makes us grab at any straw. When clients are insane about hating condoms etc. One little hypnosis session and they can't have sex without them. THEY LOVE THEM. In fact sex is much better wearing a condom (all done with their consent, and UNFORTUNATELY only done to those over twenty.) AND I DON'T CHARGE A PENNY. HEY, BETTER YET, ASK YOUR FAMILY DOCTOR. SEE IF YOU CAN FIND A LEGIT. PHYSICIAN TO AGREE THAT THERE IS A CURE FOR HIV. IF YOU'RE IN COLLEGE, GO TO THE STUDENT HEALTH CLINIC AND SEE IF YOU CAN FIND ANYONE THERE WHO'LL AGREE HIV IS CURED, OR TAP DANCE OVER TO THE MEDICAL SCHOOL AND ASK SOME DOCTORS THERE.

What scares me are the numbers of kids who are now having sex without condoms, because they tell their partners, you can't get pregnant standing up because gravity will cause the sperm to fall out of you, or if we do it in a pool the chlorine in the water will kill my sperm. Don't spread more wives tales, when the result doesn't mean an unwanted pregnancy, but means having a rotten disease. And by the way, the drugs that slow down HIV are a great discovery, but all drugs have side effects, and some people will be allergic to the drugs. Those people have a limited number of choices.

Don't spread false rumors that HIV is no more. That tidbit of information could lead to pain and death to people who believe you. If you don't believe me then use your Search Engine and find an article, from real scientists, and not guys with magic ray guns that can kill the virus with one shot. (There are dozens of places/people with cures. HOW CAN THERE BE SO MANY CURES, AND STILL HAVE SO MANY HIV INFECTED PEOPLE, AND HOW CAN INFECTION RATES RISE? DON'T READ ABOUT ALL THE "MIRACLE CURES" EXCEPT FOR LAUGHS, AND COMPARE THEM. WHY DON'T YOU NEED AN Rx TO GET THESE DRUGS? THE ONLY WAY TO GET AROUND THAT LAW IS TO SHOW THAT THE ITEM BEING SOLD IS FOOD, OR IN FOOD. So then, we've had the cure all along, and you still hide your Brussel sprouts under your mashed potatoes....... VERY BAD!! A while back there was a great story going around that there was NO SUCH THING AS HIV. But they forgot to tell the thousands dying of this fictional disease. You'll always find people who want to pick your pockets. Haven't you gotten the notice that you have millions of Euros waiting for you, in Nigeria. Why aren't you rushing to send them the $200 "good faith fee" or whatever they call it. These are the people who trade on people's dreams. They say, "If people are dumb enough to send us their money, so what? Besides we send them a mix of vitamins and minerals, and they won't hurt them, who knows it MIGHT cure AIDS. They are right, and maybe dirt cures AIDS. I haven't a doubt that with the right pitch some people would be out on their lawns with spoons. It may be sarcasm, but I still believe it's true. Have you heard about "Psychic Surgery?" Read about that, and the millions they are still stealing from the idiots who believe these "doctors" can remove cancerous tumors, without breaking the skin, and yet they end up with a handful of blood and guts (it also makes great chicken soup). They claim cures for cancer, cures for diabetes, ways to make you grow taller or larger all over (even if you're 75).

NOW YOU TELL ME ABOUT ORAL SEX AND IF YOU BELIEVE IT'S ALL CURED, KEEP YOUR HEALTH INSURANCE UP TO DATE.

I swear, I had no intention of interrupting your answers, but I also won't let a question that I posed cause more total falsehoods to be spread that are so dangerous.

sorry,

C
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Christ,

Good for you. This is my favorite topic to get yuks from. Glad you find it all so amusing and/or below you. What you don't seem to get is that making statements assuming that people can read your mind, and understand that you're talking about long term monogamous relationships, is about as useful as your statement that there's nothing to fear from semen....... when you teach minds still growing, it's important to ask what semen, and from whom, or they believe that you really are saying there is nothing to fear. What really makes me smile is your willingness to trust that all monogamous relationships are just that, because we all know that people never cheat, and never lie. The difference between us is that I work with people who believed their lover's promises, and are now in hell with herpes, Hep B and C and other STD's besides HIV. I bet you're a scream at the Hospice.

Please don't respond. I find you tedious, and won't answer again. The Jesus thing.......... brilliant.

C
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:-D :-D :-D :-D :-D
Is this the ol pot & kettle thing ? ?
Control calling JC ---- tedious 8-| 8-|
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Jesus-Christ wrote:

Dear Control,

Being very busy with matters in Heaven, I only managed to scim through the first paragraph of your unessisarily long reply. I appologise for assuming that the person reading it would be capable of intelligent independant thought (Granted, often a very dangerous assumption to make) and would realise that consuming the bodily fluids of a 'stranger' might just be dangerous. My answer was aimed at people already in sexual relationships.

I geuss, if you have been having sex and swapping saliva with a HIV infected partner for a while, their semen is harmless.

Of course unless you get it in your eye.


And I don't get Semen off anyone! I'm Jesus for Christs sake, my Dad would kill me!








Ok I'm srry but Jesus- Christ your really starting to get on my nerves REALLY. You are not Jesus and I'm certainly glad your not I'm really tired of your smartass remarks. You have been running your mouth to people on here for a while now. Not just on this post but many others I have read grow up. I'm tired of your immaturity. People come on here to get help and good advice they dont come on here to get put down or told how they should do this or do that. We help them not tell them "Hey I'm God and I'm going to send you to hell BLAH bLAH bLAH!!!!!!!!
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I used to love eating my husbands semen, I could make him cum in less than three minutes while giving him a blow job and I would swallow. But now since we have a kid, I feel like if I eat his semen or even suck his penis I feel like I'm eating my future children. I dont think there is anything wrong with eating semen. My husband goes down on me and can eat it for hours. I think it is healthy actually and I see no harm in it at all. And the whole HIV thing you shouldnt be eating someone out or having sex with some random stranger until you know they dont have any diseases or infections. And another thing is you can not get a sexually transmitted disease through oral sex.
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