I am almost 17 and I've noticed that I get erect very easily. Just like hugging girls sometimes or when I'm carrying a girl around or something I'll get stiff and it's embarassing. Also, when I'm doing small things like feeling a girls legs or something I start to get wet in my pants because of the clear pre-cum stuff. Is there a way to not get hard so easy and not to pre-cum?
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This is normal for a young man. This tells you that everything is in fine working condition and the opposite sex catches your interest.
As you mature, you will be able to control this a little bit better. For now, you just have to deal with it. If you feel that funny, try not to get into situations that will turn you on, like carrying a girl or feeling her legs.
You pre cum because you are getting aroused. You can't control what your mind is telling your penis to do especially when there are hot women around. The penis always wins as it seems to have a mind of its own.
As you mature, you will be able to control this a little bit better. For now, you just have to deal with it. If you feel that funny, try not to get into situations that will turn you on, like carrying a girl or feeling her legs.
You pre cum because you are getting aroused. You can't control what your mind is telling your penis to do especially when there are hot women around. The penis always wins as it seems to have a mind of its own.
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i totally agree with bbfeet. i used to think the same thing, and id get pissed cause id think, a chick can get turned on and i wouldnt be able to tell, but if i get turned on i got this woody trying to say hello to the world, so im trying to walk weird or sit down in order for someone not to notice im sportin it. it gets easier, and if a girl notices it dont worry, maybe shell be flattered :-D
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Don't worry dude its the case with all the guys and as time passes if you see something much better than this too would not help you with an erection. It changes with time and our attitude with sex, if some things which we have been dreaming off happens we get aroused and excited even though there is no reason to do so.
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start verrrrrrry slow, get your lady to go on top but go verrrrrry slow, you'll gradually feel it about to go, tell her to stop immediately (hold on tightly to her hips works better), squeeze your groin as much as poss! If you succeed in holding it in, change position where you're in control then do it how you feel comfortable, slowly at first but not immediately after, give it a minute... but yeh, it's a good way to get started. Keep stopping too, take it out and kiss her all over and give her some oral maybe when you feel yourself nearing the point of no return and continue when you feel ready to. Hope this helps :-)
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