my boyfriend rubbed his penis on my vagina.. can i get pregnant? i'm really scared and i don't know what to do.. he didn't put it inside ..but i had read about pre-cum can make you pregnant. i can't take pills i can't go see a doctor because i'm only 15 and i don't want my mom to know. please help me on this.
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Pre-cum can contain active sperm in most men. If he rubbed his penis against your vagina it could transfer the sperm to you. There is always a possibility of pregnancy when your having any kind of unprotected sexual touching/encounter. If your going to be having sexual play he needs to put a condom on before any touching to help prevent pregnancy. Sperm can live in the open air until the semen dries out killing the sperm. Birth control does more than prevent pregnancy. It also helps reduce menstrual pain and cramping, regulate your menstrual cycle, help prevent migraines, reduces acne, and stablize your hormones. So maybe instead of telling your mother you want birth control to prevent pregnancy try using another reason like to help your cycle be regular or to help your hormones every month so you dont feel so crazy. Trust me telling your mother you want birth control to help fix your cycle or something is a lot easier than telling your mother your pregnant because you wouldnt ask for birth control and now its to late. Good Luck
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I really can't tell her that i want or i need birth control ..coz she would always have this idea that i only need/want it is beacause i had sex -__- don't know what to do :(
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You are not pregnant, Do not worry. I don't understand why people make it seem like it's so easy getting pregnant.
If his penis did not go inside of you and he did not come inside/or right on top of your area I am a 100% sure you are not pregnant.
you are 15 it's time to talk to your mom about getting you prevention, and at 15 you can already go to the Dr your self and if you don't want the embarrassment (though being 15 and pregnant is already an embarrassment just think how would you tell your parents) get your boyfriend to get condoms or say No to sex, till he does. you can get condoms everywhere your self.
plus just so you know if you have a 28 days cycle from the 12-17ths day is your highest chance of getting pregnant. but just relax you are most likely not pregnant, if your period ends up being late go ahead and get a pregnancy test and remember that stress can cause it to be late as well.
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PLEASE dont listen to the advice given above as it is not correct!!!! It is very easy for some women to conceive. There are virgins whom get pregnant there first time of having sex.
If his penis did not go inside of you and he did not come inside/or right on top of your area I am a 100% sure you are not pregnant.
This is a completely false statement. His penis does not have to go inside of you to get you pregnant. He can transfer the sperm from the head of his penis with his hand and then touch your vagina and get you pregnant. He does not need to ejaculate inside or right on top to get you pregnant. He can ejaculate on your thigh and if it drips on your vagina there is a chance of pregnant. There is no way for someone to know 100% sure you are not pregnant because even using birth control or condoms there is still a chance of pregnancy because both are not 100% effective. Be careful and protect yourself!!!!
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what should i do then? :( i don't want to be pregnant. i can't approach my mother. I can't go see a Dr. and I can't prevent rubbing his penis on my area because it already did. :(
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You and I both know that its like a 1% chance of getting pregnant! if not less I am the same age as you and if you are going to tell me you know ANYONE who got pregnant that way then you know what, I take everything I have said back! but fact is, no one did!!! and some women are struggling to get pregnant especially now days, so you and I are both right. I am not saying she shouldn't protect her self not only from pregnancy but HIV, STD whatever sexual disease so it's not just about getting pills not to get pregnant but also getting a condom to get anything else. So I am standing by what I have said till you your self find me someone who got pregnant without actually having sperm/pre cum in her though I do understand the sperm can swim up so I am going to tell this 15 year old again, do not worry or stress out it is the right thing to tell her and be honest with her and not freak her out like you do. chances are VERY SLIM just use protection next time.
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i'll just take both of your advices. i'm not gonna stressed myself out even if i can't help it and i'll just wait for my next period.
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