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Hi Depressed,
Let's clarify a few things:
1. You had phimosis and it was cured. How?
2. "Glans fully covered by smegma non removable" - what does this mean? If your phimosis was cured by 18 you should be able to fully retract your foreskin AND have no problems removing smegma.
A few things can contribute to the problems maintaining an erection. Are you in pain? If it hurts, that will cause problems. Do you have any anxiety related to getting an erection? Anxiety and stress can cause erectile problems.
Have you ever been able to maintain an erection?
Are you on any medication?
Please respond.
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It's normal for you not to have been able to retract your foreskin when you were younger. 18 later than average but since you can retract it, it's OK. The smegma will come off. Use a washcloth in the shower with lots of water. It may be sensitive but you do need to clean it.
Not all guys masturbate using their hand. Some "hump" things, maybe a pillow.
Have you EVER ejaculated? Ever had a wet dream? Ever masturbated to orgasm? Are you on medication - for anything? How's your general health?
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OK,
Be sure to drink plenty of fluids then to help with the dehydration.
You have wet dreams - Great! It's a good sign that you are healthy physically.
Start playing with yourself and getting to feel comfortable with your body. Use some lube when you masturbate.
You still haven't answered my other question. Are you on any medications? Other drugs?
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Thanks. That eliminates that as a possibility.
All I can suggest at this point is to try new techniques and learn to feel comfortable with what you are doing. Masturbation is normal. Some guys have "hangups" about it, some feel it is "dirty or immoral." Even babies masturbate because it feels good.
Feel good about yourself and your body. Let your girlfriend see you naked, even if you don't have sex. Maybe she can stimulate you to orgasm.
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It's doubtful it is due to any lack of sensitivity. I think possibly, and don't think this offensive, that you have a psychological issue related to masturbation. You are uncomfortable with it, think it will cause pain, so lose your erection.
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Anxiety will KILL an erection, very fast. We know you can ejaculate and you must be getting erections while you sleep. Work through it. You will be OK, really.
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