Okay, so my friend (who is 8.5 years older than me- I'll be 18 in April) and I have had sex twice in the last 2 weeks. The fist time he didn't insert all the way because I was in too much pain and discomfort and he didn't want to hurt me. He kept asking me if I was okay and if he should stop, so I said yes. He stayed and cuddled with me all night and made sure I was feeling okay.
Last night we tried to have sex again, and this time he inserted all the way and it hurt so bad (by the way, he didn't use a condom). Eventually it started to feel good, then he stopped, pulled out and said: "I don't know if I should go back in, I don't want to get you pregnant." I am honestly scared of what he meant... I don't know if he came inside me or not (the outside of my vagina was really wet/lubricated, and I don't know if that was from me bleeding, natural lubrication because I was turned on, or if he came), and I am really scared about going to a doctor or getting a pregnancy test because I'm really shy.
Anyway, when I go to the washroom I have a little bit of blood. How long does this usually last? Also, my stomach is a little bit sore too, is that normal, or is it because of something else? I'm also feeling a little bit sad but I don't want to say anything to my friend. We both agreed that we want nothing more than to be friends and that the sex was no strings attached. Please help me, I don't want to tell him that I'm feeling sad.
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If you are that concerned about it you can always take the morning after pill or i think its known as plan B in America, you have 72 hours to take that from the time you had sex hun.
The reason he stopped and pulled out is so if didn't cum inside you i think but with out asking him couldn't be sure.
He must really like you a lot to stay with you all night the first time and to keep asking you if you wanted to stop because a lot of guys dont care.
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If you are that concerned about it you can always take the morning after pill or i think its known as plan B in America, you have 72 hours to take that from the time you had sex hun.
The reason he stopped and pulled out is so if didn't cum inside you i think but with out asking him couldn't be sure.
He must really like you a lot to stay with you all night the first time and to keep asking you if you wanted to stop because a lot of guys dont care.
The sore feeling you have in your tummy is natural hun just remember your vagina has never had anything like that before so it is just a new sensation for you but it will wear off soon, as for the bleeding sometimes it will stop with in hours sometimes can take up to a week its different for everyone hun so try not to worry.
As for feeling a little bit sad i im guessing you like him a lot than just a friend and would of liked it to be more than just no strings sex? What i would say is just see how things work out in the future hun.
One thing i will say is before next time though make sure you or your friend gets some condoms so you can really enjoy the sex and not have to worry about is he going to pull out in time!
Hope this is some help for you hun :-)
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I'll add you as a friend ok
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U may be a chance of getting pregnant coz u have not followed safety measures dont worry go ahead ..........
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