Latley my boyfriend and I have been disscussing having sex, but I have a problem. I have a past of sexual abuse, and due to this, my vaginal area looks kinda...used. I never wanted this and I hate it. Ive never had sex (not really, im 16 and i consider myself a virgin) and yet I kinda look like Ive had it more than enough. I don't know how to tell him, or how to help it. please help, ive never told anyone about it and I need answers :'(
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Sorry to hear about sexual abuse.
Sexual abuse as in penetrative sex? If yes, you are not a virgin sweetie. Talk to your boyfriend about it - if he loves you, he will respond to your feelings and not pressurize you for sex. Spending time, talking about your fears will help. It all depends on just what kind of chemistry you share with him. Give him hints [indirect], if he wishes to know more, explain it to him.
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