And sex has never been the same!  We used to have a great sex life and now she seems to have no libido.  When we do have sex, she can still climax a couple times, but for the most part she seems uninspired.  She can't stand doing some things she used to love.  It is a fact she does not get as lubricated down below as she used to.  Does anyone have any suggestions?  This has really sucked some of the joy out of our lives.