hi,
4 months ago ,almost to the day, i had protected sex with a lady friend. we were both intoxicated at the time but i had the bearings to use protection, iam certain i had the condom on while we were having intercourse but in the heat of the intoxicated moment i dont know if any semen couldve slipped out(i dont think it did)...anyways i have GAD(general anxiety disorder) and i have been worrying that she may be pregnant but may not know it after 4 months. i know some women do not find out they are preg til a while after conception. is there any real possibility that she could be preg by me and just not realize it yet? i know heavier women are more prone to go a long time without knowing, but this gal is fit and in shape. i still talk to her shes a friend and all, and thus far she hasnt hinted on anything about being pregnant. i know most guys prob wouldnt think twice about this scenario but i do have anxiety, and its driving me crazy. any relative situations or expert advice would be of great appreciation. thank you!
4 months ago ,almost to the day, i had protected sex with a lady friend. we were both intoxicated at the time but i had the bearings to use protection, iam certain i had the condom on while we were having intercourse but in the heat of the intoxicated moment i dont know if any semen couldve slipped out(i dont think it did)...anyways i have GAD(general anxiety disorder) and i have been worrying that she may be pregnant but may not know it after 4 months. i know some women do not find out they are preg til a while after conception. is there any real possibility that she could be preg by me and just not realize it yet? i know heavier women are more prone to go a long time without knowing, but this gal is fit and in shape. i still talk to her shes a friend and all, and thus far she hasnt hinted on anything about being pregnant. i know most guys prob wouldnt think twice about this scenario but i do have anxiety, and its driving me crazy. any relative situations or expert advice would be of great appreciation. thank you!
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4 months is a little long not to see ANY symptoms, have you asked her if shes had any? usually women start to see signs of pregnancy 6-8 weeks into (in other words 2 months). if you used a condom, there are no signs, and its been 4 months then i highly doubt that she's pregnant but if its really bugging you i would talk to her, FIND OUT if there are any symptoms and if its alright with her , have her take a home pregnancy test. it'll be fine:)
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first off thank you for ur response...i feel a little uneasy about asking her though since shed prob think im a weirdo since it was such a long time ago. i live in a small town and usually find out pretty promptly when someone is pregnant, so it would seem likely that after 4 months i wouldve heard if she was. i wish i could just release this from my head...ive got to be one of the only guys i know who would be stressing over somin like this 4 months after having PROTECTED sex, in addition to not hearing a peep about pregnancy. :-( i know she still parties a lot, and it would seem like if she actually knew she was preg then she wouldnt be out partying 4 days out of the week. its always the "what if" though. in this situation i think i should just drop the case and move on. the futility of this worry is actually very overwhelming, dont know why i cant shake it. but if you had to render an opinion based on a 100% assurance rate, what would you say? should i be concerned or no?
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youre certainly welcome :-)
yeah, if she knew she was pregnant i think she would have ONE told you about it and TWO not be partying considering it
could be dangerous for her and the baby. i DO NOT think you should be worried or concerned at all about your friend being pregnant,
by now ANY woman who is carrying a child would have many symptoms that you could pick out (including weight gain, nausea, intense mood swings, probably even laziness) and 4 months is way too long not to notice anything, especially on her part. so i say to you, do not stress anymore over it, if she were pregnant, you would see the same stress coming from her.
yeah, if she knew she was pregnant i think she would have ONE told you about it and TWO not be partying considering it
could be dangerous for her and the baby. i DO NOT think you should be worried or concerned at all about your friend being pregnant,
by now ANY woman who is carrying a child would have many symptoms that you could pick out (including weight gain, nausea, intense mood swings, probably even laziness) and 4 months is way too long not to notice anything, especially on her part. so i say to you, do not stress anymore over it, if she were pregnant, you would see the same stress coming from her.
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normally that far along she would experience nausea, fatigue, unusal food cravings and some weight gain. im sure she would know if she was prego this far now. its highly unlikley shes pregnant and im sure she would tell you. dont worry yourself sick its not healthy.
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thank you guys so much...you have really helped alleviate a ton of stress ive been having over the issue. since i have anxiety disorders, sometimes i get irrational fears and then the snowball effect occurs, worry feeds off of worry. thanks again for taking time out of ur day to respond to this obscure post, i would definitely do the same for you. :-) :-) :-) Im gonna go ahead and consider this case closed!
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you're welcome!!. we all have crazy questions and posts on here so its nothing out of the normal. this site really helps alot because you can talk to a complete stranger and have your questions answered without having to ask someone close to you and feel awkward.
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