okay, me and my boyfriend have been talking about sex, and I know I'm ready, and I know I want him to be the one. But I'm totally freaked out about the bleeding. I dont want him to be like "Ahhg! gross!" and run away. I'm totally self concious and I know I'm going to be nervous in the first place, it being my first time. I understand it may hurt and I understand the bleeding is natural, I just dont know how to explain to him that it is, because he has never takin someone's virginity. Can someone help me?
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Do you know if he's a virgin? Perhaps he's already aware of this.
I think you did a really good job of summarizing the point in your title of the post.
Why not just have a conversation with him and bring up a few of these points....
"Honey, I'm sure you're the one, but I want to make sure we're both expecting the same things since this is my first time.... I've been reading up and this is what I've learned..."
How does that strike you?
Perhaps some of the women moderators here could give you some other ideas. Ladies?
I think you did a really good job of summarizing the point in your title of the post.
Why not just have a conversation with him and bring up a few of these points....
"Honey, I'm sure you're the one, but I want to make sure we're both expecting the same things since this is my first time.... I've been reading up and this is what I've learned..."
How does that strike you?
Perhaps some of the women moderators here could give you some other ideas. Ladies?
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I'll but in if you don't mind! Some women bleed and some women don't! It ALL depends on what has gone on before hand! Such as a tampon, masturbation etc. It ALL depends on how relaxed you are, how much of a girth he has, and if you take it nice and slow etc. He should ALWAYS wear a condom and have a towel or tissue underneath! We aren't talking about a LOT of blood IF you tear! Also know that some girls just tear a little, total or even not at all! It just all depends ont he above points! Making love is about communication and being tender and understanding! Just as Kirk stated, if he isn't a virgin, he will already know about this! If he is, I'm sure he still does! It's all about being careful, tender, and relaxed! IF you are tense or scared I GUARANTEE you that you will tense up and it will be hard going! Your brain is your biggest sex organ! So if it is stressed then the act of sex will be an unenjoyable experience!
And I think what Kirk said about communication and what to say is PERFECT! So you now have a mans and a womans point of view! RESPECT, Tenderness, Time and Preperateion is ALL that is needed! Good luck and health to both of you!
And I think what Kirk said about communication and what to say is PERFECT! So you now have a mans and a womans point of view! RESPECT, Tenderness, Time and Preperateion is ALL that is needed! Good luck and health to both of you!
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Wow you guys, Thank you! You guys helped alot lol. Geez I think my level of stress went down quite a few notches. Thank you again so much!!
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