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So recently my boyfriend of two years suggested that we have sex and. I totally agree with him but the problem is I'm a virgin. He has a track record for sleeping around so when we first started dating I told him that I had slept around too and he was fine with it. But now he wants us too have sex and I dont know how to pretend its my first time! Help?!

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Hi Just,

Lies are not a good way to start any relationship.

Just be honest with him.  You had no reason to lie about your virginity before. 

At any point, talk to him.  Don't expect him to know how you feel, what hurts, what feels good.  Everyone is different. 

Good luck.

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I cant tell him the truth ow its got to far down the line. Please could you give me some help on how to have sex and how to pretend I'm not a virgin!
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just act like you dont know what to do & have sex with him the first day of your period LOL

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like you know what to do*

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There's no one way to have sex so you could just say I never did it that way before or something like that.

Remember, it may hurt and you may bleed.  You can bleed even if it is not your first time.  Just be sure he takes his time getting you ready.  Tell him you love getting oral, until you are very wet.  You might want to practice with a vibrator or dildo ahead of time too.  It can help you "adapt" to the size of his penis.  Another tip, if it hurts just tell him he's A LOT bigger than any of your other boyfriends.  It'll help stroke his ego which is important to a lot of guys.

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I can't get any sex toys, what house held items can I use?
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There's always your fingers, maybe a cucumber or a candle.
Be careful, don't cut yourself.
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What about a carrot? Or is that not big enough?
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That'll work too.
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Right so I was masturbating with a carrot today and I started bleeding but I dont know if it was my hymen breaking or just my period coming a bit early? Is there any way i can tell straight away?
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You might be able to tell with a mirror.
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How though? What am I looking for?
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You know what your vagina looked like before. Look for any changes. There should have been a thin membrane.
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When I masturbate there is a mucus like substance that comes out...is that come?
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