Explain to me if she is a virgin or not

Hello, I'll give you a simple response to your concern. Just because she did not bleed, does not mean she is not a virgin. All women are different. Some bleed heavily to where it feels like a period after sex, some women simply bleed a few drops, others don't bleed at all. I've had friends that have told me what it was like when they lost their virginity. Some have said that it was the most painful thing they have ever experienced, others have said that it was the most pleasurable, and of course there have been that few that have said there was no pain at all. So it truly depends on the type of woman your wife is.