how to finger a girl

hey man, ok look, fingering is easy once you get used to the feeling. What i do first is, start makeing out with her, then after a few mins start kissing or sucking her neck (necking). If you are laying with her or spooning, let her rub her body against yours, follow her motions. Do this for another few mins. Start to move your hand down her stomach or around her legs... start to move your hand towards her vagina, and listen to what she does ( breathing ect.) she may move her body towards yours. Ok if she didn't stop you, then your doing something right... undo her pants and start to rub the top of her vagina... not the pubic hair though, gently and i mean gently slide your hand down towards her opening... you will relize its not on the angle you thought it would be. Now this is VERY IMPORTANT... check to make sure she is wet, feel around near the bottom of her vagina if you notice it is starting to feel wet your doing good.. NEVER PUT YOUR FINGER IN THE HOLE UNLESS ITS WET! doing so will cause pain and she will most likely make you stop.. thus makeing you feel likea complete retard. If it is wet try and put your finger in slowly and listen to her..gently slide your finger in and out of her vagina and use your thumb to rub her clit... now the clit is the most sensitive part..you have to be really gentle and listen to her, after all she knows what she likes. While you are slideing your finger in out of her vagina listen to her breathing or moaning. If it increases you are doing good and continue what you are doing. If it slows try something else. While your finger is in her vagina gently rub the inside walls his should help her reach an orgasm, Don't stop. Once she has reached an orgasm you should know.. if shes quite let her stop you... once she stops you stop don't keep doing it, it could hurt her.. and she probbally won't let you do it again. I hope that helps. Really the best person to ask is your girl ( while you doing it ask her what she likes. " does it feel good, what can i do to make it feel better ") :-D