Hi I'm in my first sexual relationship with my gf who I'm absolutely in love with I want to please her to the best of my abilities but she is scared to let me come down on her how do I convince her to let me and once I do how do I please her once Im down there?
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btw Everything else in our relationship sexual and otherwise is perfect this is the only thing that bugs me
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She says that she has never had a guy even want to do it to her she's scared because it would be her first time getting head
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All you can do is reassure her that there is nothing to be scared of and she will enjoy it :-)
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Someone can't tell you how to do it great you just have to in by her responses to what you do
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DO NOT USE YOUR TEETH - first off. You use your tongue and fingers, wet fingers with saliva to keep them moist use your fingers on her clit and rub her clit, soft, and gentle you can change your pace to how she responds to your touch but then ease off again to gentle, so that she relaxes. Keep this cycle for awhile, it builds to a bigger moment of release for the girl. Also with your tongue and fingers, go inside her vagina, be gentle and almost like you are afraid to go there yourself (for her sake as she is very nervous). Don't be rough (yet), remember to keep your fingers moist with her wetness and your saliva. Just keep yourself focused on her and pleasing her. Your pace NEEDS to be gentle and smooth, not rough. You can go fast but remember to change to slow again, this change of pace is sexy to a female, orgasms go kind of like waves and what you are doing to her with a slow/med/fast pace is mimicing the waves of an orgasm in helping her to acheive it.
Do you know where the clit is located on a female?
Does this help? Hope it does
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I do not know where the "clit" is even though I have tried to find it while Im fingering her
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Glad I asked then! It is located on the outside of the vagina, just outside of the opening. It;s nestled inside the flap of skin attached to the vagina right before the opening, open this up like a flower and that beautiful little nub is the clit. Lick, rub it (with a moist finger), suck on it (gently), whatever else it you can think of to it but most of all - be gentle and kind to it like we are to your penis. Have fun and enjoy. I hope this helps and there is a Wiki link to a picture of the clit and exactly where it is. Hope it helps you...and you are very welcome!
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clitoris
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You can keep going if she does as unlike guys we can have multiple orgasms and keep going and going (like the energizer bunny) again, only if she wants to though and is comfortable too. How can you tell if she does? She might make a lot of noise such as moan and such. She may move around a lot like she is uncomfortable, she's not. She might raise her hips and open them wider for you in a silent continue, don't stop what you are doing, I'm loving it. Every female is different, just ask her.
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