what is the proper way to finger a girl? how can I do the right thing?

Hey have either one of you done this type of thing before?? How long have you known comfortable around each other?  Are you familiar with any female reproductive anatomy ? 

she has not me. not dating but feel pretty comfortable. Not too familiar.

Ok well the important thing is to go slow an for make sure she is quite aroused an "wet" before you try to go inside with your fingers. Usually this is done via kissing/making out (if you aren't comfortable with that) also by rubing her all over including her breasts then move down and be genital rubing he outside of the vulva/vagina and inside of her thighs. Then work tonthe inside of the "vaginas lips " you should start to feel a slippery wetness that's how I know u can go deeper. Also if you start just inside the lips at the bottom and slide your finger up towards her belly button at the gen very too where the folds meet and the majority of pubic hair Is I will feel a small buttton or nub. This is her clitoris which is equivalent to the head ofnyour penis. It's VERY sensitive. Every girl is different so just go slow and pay a atrention you'll know whenever u are doing things correctly from her movement sounds and breathing. Stick with what she like she and if Shen knows her body she may guide you right hands to where she want she them. Above all take your time and honor her wishes if for whatever reason she's wants you to stop or not even start DONT do it . Respect her and you will be fine. Also if at anytime things move farther than You are comfortable with her then tell her. It is just as important for her respect you and not force you to do anything you are not comfortable with....

thx man lkj

You're welcome. Also are you planning on having sex with her or just fingering her?

just fingering now but sex soon

OK that's a big decision to make. Regardless of if you guys are just fingering or having sex you do not want to get any of your pre-ejaculate or semen on or in her vagina so be careful it doesn't get on her hands are your hands and then you touch her or she touches herself.

It is also very important if you are going to have sex to use a condom and make sure you use it correctly. Also make sure the condom is the correct size. Do you know how to do all that? Also when you start fingering it is easy to get carried away so while you are not planning on having sex you may want to have a condom just in case things go farther than you want. And remember you can always say no or just wait that is totally fine and encouraged