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By now I would hope that your are old enough to have had "the talk" with your parents, maybe a sex ed class?
I also am assuming that your are old enough to be masturbating not that there is really an age limit. To start, the best time to masturbate is in the shower, while in bed, or sometime when your parents are not home and even while on the toilet. (Weird, I know. Read on.)
The shower and the toilet are the easiest as there is no cleanup for the most part. In the shower you can use your fingers to stimulate yourself, and if you have a hand held shower head, you can hold it near your vagina. You can also use a lubricant such as shower conditioner. Stay away from soaps and shampoos as they have somewhat of the same feeling as when they are in your eye.
When you are by yourself or in bed, you can use your finger again and baby oil or lotion as a lubricant. Depending on how old you are and how far into puberty you are, your vagina should secrete a clear sticky lubricant when stimulated or you are aroused.
Someone else on another post suggested toothpaste and then retracted what they said "It feels nice but then it burns like hell!" or something to that affect.
I hope this helps and that you are not to wigging out by someone of the opposite gender replying.
Feel free to email.
Holmestrix
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Well I’m an 18 year old girl and I masturbate regularly, when I first started I would watch porn the my parents found out and I had to find another way around it, I'd say the safest way to masturbate and not get caught or feel guilty is, your thoughts and imagination, think about what you like all day the when you get home let your imagination take hold. Another way is to read I have a e-reader and usually buy free erotica, but romance novels are just as good and sometimes better. I find that when you masturbate especially if your just starting out the slow approach is the best, look at your body naked in the mirror, find what you like, what pleasures you, and how to go about it there is no real wrong approach to masturbation because it’s about you and how you want to feel. I hope this helped and safe exploration.
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