I am 17 in 2 months and i just dont think i am where i should be

I forgot to emphasize my own experience with hormonal issues as I discussed earlier in our conversation. Whatever the cause, what you describe has some similarities to what I went through which is why I am worried about this possibility. My experience says this needs to be checked out!

I have to give you credit for being so helpful and interested. I am literally going to go up to mum and say , mum i think we should go see a doctor, as i am 17 and i come across as a 14 year old. I just dont think i am where i need to be.

I am really glad to hear it! I think that is the best course of action and I really believe your mother will understand and help you with all of this. If I can be of any help, please let me know!

Please tell me what happened last night was a wet dream. For the first time ever i woke up and when i pulled back my foreskin it was all gooey and slimey. I think i had a small stain on ny boxers. Tell me what this is.

Hey I think I can help. No offense to Hypno's responses they were prob super good but too long and im slightly too busy to take all the time to read them. But what I can say is that masturbating try using vaseline or lotion as a lubricant, or in other words, somrthing that stimulates your penis and makes ejacuclation easier and quicker. the head of the penis is the most sensitive so try focusing on that and just let your hand do what feels good. I have an asexual friend and in other words that means he doesnt have sexual desires at all, so I don't assume it is common but you arent alone, you may just be asexual. Umm...also you could be going through an asexual phase and you'll  start be oming aroused adound the time you enter colleg

 

Oops sorry glitched me out or something anyways so you might be going thru a phase, and while you might reply to this that you never were aroused, plenty of boys never start till 15 or 16 so your phase of lack of sexual arousal just happened to start AT the beginning of the start of your, or all boys, interest in girls. Then you have early bloomers like kids having sex at 14 and even 13 and guys with facial hair that young plus your late bloomers which you could be. You might not even necesarily be asexual as I previously theorized.

That sounds like a wet dream to me. I have sex a lot so I rarely have wet dreams nowadays ose pnly happen when you havent ejaculated in a while. And from my experience, you tend to remember the sex dream but maybe that is just me.

I am sorry Fifa, I don't know why but I am not getting all the notifications I am supposed to get.

The suggestion by Guest it is a wet dream/nocturnal emission is indeed the most likely explanation. Currently there is no reason to believe it is anything else. Wet dreams are perfectly normal and are quite common even when you get older. I still get them at 40 years old. With this being your first, it strengthens the possibility that you just blooming a little later than the others.