I am going to turn 13 in two days and iv'e read a lot of sides to the masturbating subject. but that's the thing, I don't know which side to believe. The guys that are so into religion, they're out of there minds, or the guys that say don't do it because you'll get a sore "thing", or the guys that say do it because it reduces the rate of prostate cancer. So right before I go to do it, I don't know whether to go through with it, or just forget about it. I'm really looking some guidence/advice if anybody has it. I know i'll get like 20 replies, and they'll all say different things. Thanks in advance, djwolf.
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Guess it does get pretty confusing. BUT, would 95% of us guys be doing it if it was all that bad? The other 5% lie about it. You MIGHT get a sore thing the first time or two until the thing gets a little tougher. That really only if you do it for a long time. The first time you ejaculate it might scare you because it can be so intense. Afterwards you realize how great that felt and guess what? Your wanting to do it again. Dont worry, you arent going to break anything. Have fun!
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I think you need to look at FACT...not what religious theory or cultural ideals say. The FACT is that almost every guy on Earth masturbates. Almost all started around your age. And most do it pretty frequently - probably at least once a day. That is millions of guys who masturbate regularly ... for generations and generations...and there isn't even a single documented downside of regular masturbation.
Now - yes, if you are too aggressive it may hurt. Just like if you run too hard, or lift weights that are too heavy for you. If you become obsessed with it and do nothing else it may have impacts on the rest of your life - just like if you became obsessed with sports, or music, or comic books.
To be a normal teenage boy, going through puberty and masturbating regularly...there is nothing to worry about. It is VERY natural...and it feels good. Enjoy it dude!
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When you do decide to do it try not to make the same mistake I did. For some reason I can't recall ever doing anything with mine before eleven. Guess I completly ignored I had one. I don't remember ever having a regular little boys penis. I'm sure I did. At eleven I was very well developed. Probably started puberty at ten. A friend a couple of years older than me seen mine and told me all about masturbation. He thought I could ejaculate. Decided to try it that night in the shower. I was going at it and started getting this very intense wierd feeling. I thought something was wrong and stopped. Scared me. Couldn't wait to talk to my friend again. He told me I was very close to ejaculation and to do it again but don't stop. Got my nerve up and tried it agian. He was right. Really great feeling!
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