What's wrong with my vagina !? Right I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months now and we had sex before we got together he is very large and a bit older for me so always had trouble taking him... But a lot of the time I could . I caught genital warts before I got with him got treatment but they came back this mouth . I got a different treatment this time and past 2 weeks been getting them frozen off. Whilst I had this I gained a infection in my bladder which spread to my kidneys so we wasn't having sex as much and if we did it would hurt but this week my infection has gone and so have my warts . But I'm in so much pain when we have sex now the worst pain I've ever experienced soon as he puts the tip in it stings and I just can't do it . Tonight we did it and wasn't to bad but was hurting a bit through out and I can't wee it just stings more than normal after sex ! I've now looked at my vagina it's all red and swollen help help