Last night my boyfrend played with me but he kept his hands on the outside of my underwear. :$ It felt good at the time but when i got home i went upstairs for a wee and it hurt so much i had to stop. It feels like its burning the skin around my vagina. :'( I tried later that night and still felt the same. I tried again half way through the next day and it wasn't as bad but it still hurt a lot %-) .
Why is it hurting me? Is there something wrong? :'(
Help me please x.
Why is it hurting me? Is there something wrong? :'(
Help me please x.
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I would say all the skin where he was rubbing with your underwear is raw. Think of taking sandpaper to it o.O for ---- how long was he rubbing? When I was working on stretching my tight foreskin, I got stretch marks that burned like h*ll when urine got on them. Now it's hemroids that get rubbed raw by toilet paper. I use hydrocortisone cream on those. It works the best of anything I've found. It's not for internal use so just don't force it into your vagina. It feels cool and the soreness is healed in about 12 hours for me. :-D
Tell him about it and make him be more gentle next time. Love isn't supposed to hurt :-(
If he complains, ask him if he'd like you to rub the bare head of his penis while wearing cotton gloves. o.O
If you decide to do this without the underwear in the way, get some KY jelly to lubricate the area and make him go easy on you. He should respect your wishes if he wants you to allow him to play on your playground. 8-|
If you've been masturbating, you know what feels good for you. Show him !
If he cares about pleasing you, when he sends you into orbit, he'll go there with you.
BTW didn't I read where you told a young girl who was afraid to make out with her much older BF to just grit her teeth and let it happen? I hope you're not really letting a guy work you over like that :-( Any guy who does anything you're not comfortable with, is just using you >;)
Please tell me it ain't so.
Tell him about it and make him be more gentle next time. Love isn't supposed to hurt :-(
If he complains, ask him if he'd like you to rub the bare head of his penis while wearing cotton gloves. o.O
If you decide to do this without the underwear in the way, get some KY jelly to lubricate the area and make him go easy on you. He should respect your wishes if he wants you to allow him to play on your playground. 8-|
If you've been masturbating, you know what feels good for you. Show him !
If he cares about pleasing you, when he sends you into orbit, he'll go there with you.
BTW didn't I read where you told a young girl who was afraid to make out with her much older BF to just grit her teeth and let it happen? I hope you're not really letting a guy work you over like that :-( Any guy who does anything you're not comfortable with, is just using you >;)
Please tell me it ain't so.
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Thankss loveyy :').
And well, its not that he doesnt listen to me its just he has a bigger say in our relationship :/.
He could just be using me but i hope he isn't and i told him after that he would go and tell everyone and we had a talk n he said that he loved me and wouldnt tell anybody because he doesnt want to hurt me. But i dont know if i believe him when he says it :/.
Ohwell :/. Thankss anyway x.
And well, its not that he doesnt listen to me its just he has a bigger say in our relationship :/.
He could just be using me but i hope he isn't and i told him after that he would go and tell everyone and we had a talk n he said that he loved me and wouldnt tell anybody because he doesnt want to hurt me. But i dont know if i believe him when he says it :/.
Ohwell :/. Thankss anyway x.
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Well, whatever blows your skirt up :-)
Myself, I feel my wife has just as many votes as I have when it comes to how we do things. So if I want something done differently, it's up to me to get her to see it my way.
As far as sex goes, it's more one sided. I feel it's my job to satisfy her. :-) Her pleasures are much more complicated than mine and it takes a lot of study, practice, feedback and instruction for me to be able to do that. By doing that, I hope she will want to do the same for me.
Just tugging away at my penis until it spits, will achieve the same intense final result. That seems to be all a lot of guys are looking for, but it's really nice to have a woman make love to me. Touch me and caress my penis and testicles lovingly ----- wow, what a feeling o.O
I hope it doesn't surprise you too much that a man want's pretty much the same kind of loving that you do. o.O
Myself, I feel my wife has just as many votes as I have when it comes to how we do things. So if I want something done differently, it's up to me to get her to see it my way.
As far as sex goes, it's more one sided. I feel it's my job to satisfy her. :-) Her pleasures are much more complicated than mine and it takes a lot of study, practice, feedback and instruction for me to be able to do that. By doing that, I hope she will want to do the same for me.
Just tugging away at my penis until it spits, will achieve the same intense final result. That seems to be all a lot of guys are looking for, but it's really nice to have a woman make love to me. Touch me and caress my penis and testicles lovingly ----- wow, what a feeling o.O
I hope it doesn't surprise you too much that a man want's pretty much the same kind of loving that you do. o.O
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