Hi,
I'm new to the sight and have'nt told anyone my problem
i'm on here as i don't know who else to talk to where i wont feel stupid!
i get stressed with myself even before going to bed and knowing that when me and my boyfriend start foreplay, that i wont get wet.
this annoys me so much as i feel such pressure on myself from myself to get wet so me and my boyfriend can enjoy sex like we did before.
it can take over 20/30 mins for me to get relaxed enough to become wet. where as my boyfriend has had a erection all this time and is waiting to do something with it. this also make me stressed as i know he is already aroused and its taking so long for me to get there.
some nights like last night we attempt to have sex but then my boyfriend gives up :(
when i eventually get wet its lush and i do orgasium and we both enjoy this. my boyfriend lasts less than 5 mins but then i guess he has been waiting 30 mins. this is annoying for me especially as its taken me so long to get there then its over as soon as it starts. :(
can any one help me.
i think i need confidence and to stop putting so much pressure on myself but i worry to much.
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I would suggest you get some lubrication, you can use it as part of the foreplay, it will make it a far more enjoyable experience, rather than you be stressed and concerned that you won't get wet.
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