Hi
I'm 32 and you would think that I should by now know what it feels like to come, where the G Spot is and how it feels when you're coming. Don't get me wrong, I am very sexually active but have never experienced orgasm as I have heard it. I get stimulated through clitoris stimulation but have never been able to come during sex. I have also heard my friends saying that they are dripping wet during sexual intercourse, but, for me, I'm just dry. Sometime as we are having sex, i need to stop because I feel this intense feeling to pee. I don't think it's me cumming but really needing to pee cos when i do try to pee, i do. Why am I not wet and how can i enjoy sex better? I'm so envious when I hear how wet people get and how it feels to cum when having sex.
Please help.
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Hello, I'm 38 and don't get wet when sexually excited, it's never happened and I don't think it ever will. I know what you mean about feeling jealous about other women getting wet - doesn't that sound like it must feel great! My ex boyfriend knew of 1 other girl this affected but it isn't something you come across much. I have to use lubrication - and for those people who say it's because your partner isn't doing something right, that's nonsense. I'm quite experienced and not shy, it's just a physical thing. I use baby oil as a lubricant, lots is great but have only managed a handful of orgasms through sex - usually there has to be clitoral stimulation as well. If you like doggy style then you can sort yourself out while your partner enters you from behind which is nice, if you control it right then you can come together. It can feel like you need to pee as there is pressure on your bladder, I suggest using the loo beforehand to give you peace of mind and lots of masturbation or use of a vibrator to really get used to the feeling - at least it's fun practising!
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