I have a mild case of hemorrhoids like they very rarely flare up. but my boyfriend really wants to have anal sex and i really want to please him but when we try the pain is beyond belief. Any suggestions? and thank you in advance. Oh!! and would anybody know if the pain is from me being a first timer or from the hemorrhoids or both?
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Yikes, hemorrhoids- no fun!
hemorrhoids are not something to mess with, they are painful, as you know and messing with them could lead to more pain and complications.
My advice to you is to not do the anal until they TOTALLY heal and ONLY if you feel comfortable doing it. If you're not comfortable telling your guy why you can't- a simple "because thats not my thing" should be sufficient...if it's not... perhaps, you should consider a new guy. I don't know him and I'm not making assumptions about his character, but if he is not OK with what you're comfortable with or not, that could lead to bigger issues!
OKAY... now fun stuff, pleasuring him:
oral is fun and provides great visuals for guys that along with the sensations he feels having you down there creates a ton of excitment and pleasure... try new things and spice things up with role play, spanking and toys!
Also, pillow talk is the best way to crack his pleasure code...
hope this helps
hemorrhoids are not something to mess with, they are painful, as you know and messing with them could lead to more pain and complications.
My advice to you is to not do the anal until they TOTALLY heal and ONLY if you feel comfortable doing it. If you're not comfortable telling your guy why you can't- a simple "because thats not my thing" should be sufficient...if it's not... perhaps, you should consider a new guy. I don't know him and I'm not making assumptions about his character, but if he is not OK with what you're comfortable with or not, that could lead to bigger issues!
OKAY... now fun stuff, pleasuring him:
oral is fun and provides great visuals for guys that along with the sensations he feels having you down there creates a ton of excitment and pleasure... try new things and spice things up with role play, spanking and toys!
Also, pillow talk is the best way to crack his pleasure code...
hope this helps
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