I'm 17 and I want to lose my virginity badly

tony1213 over a year ago

I'm a guy and I want to have sex really badly. I know this sounds desperate, but I'm really curious about it and a lot of my male friends are having sex. I'm still a virgin and I want to experience it for myself. I think about sex a lot and I watch a lot of porn and masturbate a lot, too. I just can't seem to stop thinking about it. I'm not a pervert or anything, I'm just really curious about how it will feel and how good I will be. I have no experience but I try to take notes from porn of what I see the men do. A lot of people say that it is better to wait until marriage but I can't and don't want to wait that long. I honestly don't care about losing it to a girl I love or anything, it could be any girl, I just want to get it over with. I don't have a girlfriend, so that makes it even more of a challenge. My plan was to get a girlfriend and try to get her to have sex with me, but not too many girls seem to be interested in me. It may sound terrible, but if I get to a certain age (maybe 20 or 21) and I still haven't lost it, I will just go to a hooker. Is it normal for guys to think about sex this much?

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obscure seaplane over a year ago

Hey Tony first off let me tell you that it is completely normal for a guy to think about sex that much especially at your age your hormones are all sorts of crazy. I would be careful about just losing your virginity just to lose it. Virginity is actually a special thing and there are people who wish they could take it back once they lost that because it was nothing special about at the time. But as they mature they would've like to wait so I would not rush into things. I know it may seem like all your friends are having sex but did it ever occur to you that they might be saying that to fit in or to sound cool or to avoid being teased because they themselves think that everybody else is having sex. There a study showing that less than 50 to 20% of high school kids have actually had sex depending on where you're from and how old you are also be careful what you see on porn videos they are highly misleading and really a lot of girls would not like to have sex the way they have it in the movies or to be touch the way that they do in the movies it is painful for a lot of girls and not enjoyable. Also porn movies tend to make people self-conscious because it looks like everybody in porn and very large penises and sell it gives a false sense that your penis might be small but in fact it is probably average size for even big you should never compare yourself to what you see in porn. Not to mention in having sex there is a large risk of getting STDs and causing pregnancy. I work in the healthcare field and I see a ton of it all the time even when people use protection it's never 100% guaranteed. Does this make any sense?

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Guest over a year ago

Hi! I am I a girl but I just wanted to confirm for you, yes it is totally normal for you to have urges and it's not creepy. It seems like finding a girlfriend and taking it from there will be the best idea. h****rs may not be your wisest choice. Be sure that if finding a girlfriend is what you really want, that you make 100% sure it is OK with her to have intercourse.

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Guest over a year ago

Haha me too.

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Guest over a year ago

re al ly?

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Guest over a year ago

Are u a girl