Jake13andcurious wrote:
Guest wrote:
So i have never had sex and im 25 male,
i never fell in love with a girl so thats really the reason why
although i have never masterbated either
i got hard but never did anything about it when i was younger. Now that im 25 i never get hard.
Any help?
I really dont have the slightest clue on what to do once its hard
This is seriously not a joke
Thanks so much
The question is, do you want to masterbate? Remember, whether you do it or not doesn't affect your chances of having sex. There's nothing wrong with you, but if you want to learn how, I suggest you pick a day when you're totally alone and in private, in a place you feel comfortable (your room, the shower, living room, etc), pull the curtains or not, dim the lights or not, something to think about would be porn, like someone said before here, it's a way of exploring yourself and what turns you on. Remember, it's all about you. As to the speed or the grip or whatever, like I said, however you feel comfortble. If you just don't feel comfortable doing it, then maybe it's just not for you, and that's normal.Code:
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some people have a condition where they arer not attracted to male or female and dont get sexually excited atall, have you looked into this? im not 100% sure about it all i know is that its out there.
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Maybe you're afraid to try or what will happen when you masturbate ?
Go to the bathroom, pants down. Just start exploring and what turns you on. Sooner or later you will get to the felling when it's comfortable hehe.
Have you never been in love or were you too afraid to do anything about it ?
Are you ashamed of yourself, how you look and that ?
If yes, stop carrying about it really. Go to some places, meet girls. If she's normal and is what you're looking for, then she will most likely accept you and you should simply try how it goes out. You have nothing to loose. It's good if you try it and see girls reaction, so you'll know in future how to act if you'll maybe meet a girl you'll like.
Good luck.
Go to the bathroom, pants down. Just start exploring and what turns you on. Sooner or later you will get to the felling when it's comfortable hehe.
Have you never been in love or were you too afraid to do anything about it ?
Are you ashamed of yourself, how you look and that ?
If yes, stop carrying about it really. Go to some places, meet girls. If she's normal and is what you're looking for, then she will most likely accept you and you should simply try how it goes out. You have nothing to loose. It's good if you try it and see girls reaction, so you'll know in future how to act if you'll maybe meet a girl you'll like.
Good luck.
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having 7 girl friends in 7 months isnt something to be proud of, the advice you gave seemed a little immature.. my advice to you would be to stay away from getting girls, your abit to young to hold onto a relationship at the moment, it will make it more special when u find the right one.
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There's nothing with u, some people are just like that. I myself used to be disgusted with the thought of intercourse, until i tried masturbation and felt its pleasures. U should try, u just might like it. If u cant get it up try waking some porn or something to get u arouse.
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im 23 gay male and i have the same problem i dont masterbate, and neva had sex with a female or male lol i can get hard an precum but i dont buss my nut? the only time i do is when im with sum1 an they do it 4 me or thru my freaky dreams, Go figure lmaoo
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that is not love thats just a gf love is one gf youre just a man w****
to asker just try masturbating most of us do it as for love it'll happen when it does you'll know
to asker just try masturbating most of us do it as for love it'll happen when it does you'll know
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I was like you...didnt know how to masterbate til I was 17...had my share of wet dreams too, til my best friend, hearing my prob, w/ wet sheets told me how...I still didnt have my first sexual experience til I was 20yo, so dont feel ashamed
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I am not a Christian or a 'religious person', I only have my own view that is supported by science. Countless cultures throughout history have recognized the health benefits of refraining from ejaculation and arousal. Ejaculation causes chemicals such as Oxytocin and Prolactin to be released into the blood stream. These chemicals cause the feeling of brief ecstasy, exhaustion, and relaxation that occur after ejaculation. They are key components in causing the body to generate 5 Alpha Reductase, an enzyme formed in the prostate, testicles and seminal fluids. The purpose of 5 Alpha Reductase is to convert regular adrenaline into DHT, an androgen (male sex hormone) that effects androgen receptors 3 times as powerfully as regular adrenaline. DHT mostly effects hair follicles and the prostate. It is this chemical that is solely responsible for the male balding pattern and has an important role in the development of prostate cancer. Common treatment for both hair loss in men and prostate cancer are 5 Alpha Reductase inhibitors that will prevent DHT from forming. A certain amount of DHT is necessary in men because it helps to sustain an erection and creates masculine sex traits. Men with not enough DHT, such as men born with pseudohermaphroditism will often have higher voices or lack facial hair. Eunuchs nearly never develop the male balding pattern or prostate cancer and the very reason is because they don't have testicles to produce DHT.
In short, one of the aftermaths of an ejaculation is the body produces 5 Alpha Reductase which turns adrenaline into DHT, which is the chief cause of baldness and prostate cancer in men. The less you ejaculate the lower your risk is for baldness and prostate cancer. These are biological facts, however the Western medical community has a hard time coping with them because it contradicts the accepted idea that frequent sex and masturbation is healthy and has no negative effect on men.
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dont masturbate if u can. all my life want stop masturbate but I cant. also cant have a relation with a girl, cause of my personality, I never did sex...and havent the courage to do a paid sex. do you think you have a problem!!!
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I guarantee you've had tons of wet dreams. If you don't relieve yourself your body does it for you.
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