You see, I'm 18 and the other day I finally decided to have sex with my boyfriend. My first time EVER. He knows I am a virgin, understands, loves me very much and everything. I was nervous, sure and he understood that too.
He was using a condom and he has gotten two fingers in pretty deep too. But, when he went to "enter", he didnt even get in a quarter of the way before it started to hurt like hell. I mean, I have heard of it hurting for like 20 seconds or something.. but this HURT LIKE HELL. So anyway, he was really sweet and we stopped and stuff and just continued with foreplay. He tried again a little later to go in but I was kinda scared of the pain after that so i stopped him and then we drifted to sleep in each others arms.
My problem is.. I'm not bleeding and although it stings a bit when I go to the restroom, I have a feeling the barrier wasnt broken. So...
Is it possible that a guy just cant go into a girl?
Was it supposed to hurt THAT much?
If I havent bled does that mean the barrier still isnt broken?
And.. should I be scared to try again with sex after feeling what the pain will be like for him to try and go in again?
Help...
He was using a condom and he has gotten two fingers in pretty deep too. But, when he went to "enter", he didnt even get in a quarter of the way before it started to hurt like hell. I mean, I have heard of it hurting for like 20 seconds or something.. but this HURT LIKE HELL. So anyway, he was really sweet and we stopped and stuff and just continued with foreplay. He tried again a little later to go in but I was kinda scared of the pain after that so i stopped him and then we drifted to sleep in each others arms.
My problem is.. I'm not bleeding and although it stings a bit when I go to the restroom, I have a feeling the barrier wasnt broken. So...
Is it possible that a guy just cant go into a girl?
Was it supposed to hurt THAT much?
If I havent bled does that mean the barrier still isnt broken?
And.. should I be scared to try again with sex after feeling what the pain will be like for him to try and go in again?
Help...
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For the first time. You would experience very painful experience . It normal . However it takes time. To relax and etc. Its normal
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some cases, women don't bleed even if their hymen was broken. maybe your's is the same case. try to relax next time, lubricant will also help.
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