losing my virginity

You sound more scared of having sex than never having sex at all. I can't really say I'm an expert because I'm a virgin myself, but I can say babe is take it really slow. Try lots of kisses first and go on to foreplay. I know this is always said but use a condom when it comes to him putting his penis into you. And if it does hurt then try to relax and enjoy the atmosphere of this romantic experience. And if it doesn't help then try lubrication, this will do wonders.

Oh yes you will.

Some women find they loose their virginity and it is no big deal.

But some women need some help breaking or tearing the hymen, and they turn to a doctor to help cut it under controlled circumstances.

You will eventually come to the point where you will have your hymen broken, and it won't be painful again.

good luck.

Each woman is different, but I know the first time I had it there was so much pain. The second time there was still pain.

But the pain is no longer there. It took my body time to get used to the feeling of something rather large suddenly inside it, but it did indeed happen.

Don't worry that you will never will have nice, pleasurable sex. If it continues to hurt, try to get in some more foreplay to help yourself out.