i'M 17 YEARS OLD... i LOST MY ViRGiNiTY WEN i WAS 15 YEARS OLD. i LOST MY ViRGiNiTY ON 9/22/07 THEN HAD SEX AGAiN 10/6/07 & THEN AGAiN 10/13/07. i HADNT HAD SEX iN A COUPLE OF YEARS THEN ON 7/4/09 i HAD UNPROTECTED SEX WiTH THE SAME GUY i HAD SEX WiT BEFORE. WE WERE BOTH TESTED BEFORE THiS HAD HAPPENED A COUPLE WEEKS BEFORE WE HAD SEX... WE WERE STD FREE. AFTER HAViN SEX ON 7/4/09 3-4 DAYS LATER i STARTED TO FEEL SiCK... i HAD UPSET STOMACH, MiNOR CRAMPiN, VERY NEASUAS, LOSiN APPETITE, TiREDNESS, VERY SLEEPY. i HAVE iRREGULAR PERiODS AND i NEVER KNOW WHEN i'M GOiN TO GET iT... i CAN'T REMEMBER LAST TiME i HAD ME PERiOD BUT iT WAS A WHLE AGO i TOOK 4 PREGNACY TEST ALL SAiD NEGATiVE, & LATELY AT NiTE RiTE BEFORE i GO TO BED i GET VERY BAD ACHES iN MY STOMACHE & PELViC AREA BUT THATS ONLY WHEN i'M LAYiN iN BED... USUALLY i JUST FALL ASLEEP & WAKE UP NUSAEOUS. THE LAST 4 DAYS i'VE BEEN HAViNG A PiNKiSH/ BROWN BLOOD ONLY WHEN i WiPPE. NOW iTS BEEN 2 WEEKS & 2 DAYS SiNCE i HAD UNPROTECTED SEX & i STiLL HAVE CRAMPiN.... COULD i BE PREGO?
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im 21 and i had been having sex ever since i was 13 and very irregular perriods. HAd lot of close calls on being pregnant and i know you dont wanna hear this, but PLEASE use condoms when havin sex. you do not need to be having kids at you age. I was 18 when i got pregnant and it dones change your life in so many ways. I feel like i have missed out on alot.
Ok now your problem. Go get tested for any infections, stds and preg. Have a pap done and get checked out asap.
Usually you dont get tired or sleepy until the 2nd trimester of pregnancy. I was up and running around the first month or two i didnt know i was pregnant, but of course everyone different on symptoms.
You might have and infection of some sort, but please tell your mom and get checked out in case you are pregnant so you can get the medical care you need or incase you have some sort of infection you might have picked up from him or developed
Ok now your problem. Go get tested for any infections, stds and preg. Have a pap done and get checked out asap.
Usually you dont get tired or sleepy until the 2nd trimester of pregnancy. I was up and running around the first month or two i didnt know i was pregnant, but of course everyone different on symptoms.
You might have and infection of some sort, but please tell your mom and get checked out in case you are pregnant so you can get the medical care you need or incase you have some sort of infection you might have picked up from him or developed
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WELL WE BOTH GOT TESTD N WE WERE BOTH CLEAN SO i'M NOT TOO WORRiED ABOUT THAT... MY WHOLE THiNG iS THE PREGNACY THiNG... AND RiTE NOW i'M KiNDA SCARED THAT i MiGHT BE HAViNA MiSSCARRiGE BECAUSE OF THE FACT THAT i'VE BEEN HAViN THiS BLEEDiN FOR ABOUT 4 DAYS NOW... BUT iT ONLY SHOWS UP WEN i WiPE... i'M NOT SURE THAT iS NORMAL... ALSO WEN i CALLD THE DR. HE SAiD i WAS TO EARLY TO TELL.. THAT i HAD TO WAiT UNTiL 17 DAYS OF iNTERCOARSE.
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So it hasnt been a month after the intercourse?
Treat your periods as if they are regular, cause sometimes you do ovulate when you dont have a period so you can get preggy on those months you dont have one. Wait until you period is suppose to start to take the test. Its just a waiting game.
When i was pergnant with both my kids i bled pretty good in the first trimester. it scared me to death, Some people actual had a regular period during pregnancy so no worries. The pain you have might be the uterus adjusting to the pregnancy, who knows right now since you dont know if you are pregnant.
I know after i had sex a few times i got really sick to my stomach and never felt good half the time.
Have you told your mom?
I know its scary but trust me she would have all the knowing of what to do,after all she did have you=).
Treat your periods as if they are regular, cause sometimes you do ovulate when you dont have a period so you can get preggy on those months you dont have one. Wait until you period is suppose to start to take the test. Its just a waiting game.
When i was pergnant with both my kids i bled pretty good in the first trimester. it scared me to death, Some people actual had a regular period during pregnancy so no worries. The pain you have might be the uterus adjusting to the pregnancy, who knows right now since you dont know if you are pregnant.
I know after i had sex a few times i got really sick to my stomach and never felt good half the time.
Have you told your mom?
I know its scary but trust me she would have all the knowing of what to do,after all she did have you=).
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NO iT HASNT BEEN A MONTH YET... ACTUALLY TODAY WiLL B 2 WEEKS AND 4 DAYS. & i AM STiLL BLEEDiN BUT JUST A LITTLE BiT MORE THAT i HAVE TO WEAR A PANTiE LiNER...BUT iTS NOT A PERiOD CUZ iTS TOO LiGHT. i HAVENT TOLD MY MOM YET CUZ SHE DOESNT NOE i HAVE SEX SO i DNT WANNA TELL HER i MiTE B PREGOO N i FiND OUT NO BEiNG... THATS MY WHOLE THiNG...CUZ iF i FiND OUT i AM... iM DEFF GONNA TELL HER CUZ THEN i GOTTA GO A GYNO DR. WHiCH i DNT NOE WHiCH ONE SHE USES... AND WHAT NOT.. MY WHOLE THiS iS i DNT WANNA SAY ANYTHiN UNLESS i NOE.
i WANNA THX U FOR ALL THE iNFO...
i WANNA THX U FOR ALL THE iNFO...
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No problem But i know its scary to tell your mom, yes she will be upset and yes she will freak out but it will all pass.
She probably went through the same thing when she was younger.
Telling her now and explaining it all to her will be stressful but its best to tell the truth. she will be understanding and possibly help you get on birthcontrol.
Please use condoms, i think you can get them free at health clinics, just call and ask around. One call to find out for condoms can save you a life time of child raising.
If you dont turn out pregnant and keep having unproteced sex ask your self this >>>>>
>>Are you gonna finish school if pregnant( since min wage is now gonna be $7.55 hr no education will get you min wage)
>>Is he gonna really stick around if your pregnant(alot of guys wanna hang out with their friends instead of do the fatherly thing and help out)
>>Who is gonna provide food, clothing, and shelter ( babies can go through 8-10 cans of powder formula every month or less they can be up to $20 a can depending what the baby can handle, they can go through 3-4 packages of diapers a month all that together is a good cpl to a few hundred there and with the economy being bad WIC is going down on the amount of formula they are giving out)
>>Who is gonna watch your child while you work to pay for everything it needs.( day care alone you need to pay around $100-$250 A week for care depending the age and where you live)
When you have a baby your life changes. Your friends, fun time, and everything you did when you had free time come last. Your priority is raising your child and providing the best for him or her.
You can ask your parents for help, but you cant rely on them forever to help you raise your baby. They want to see you grow up and be able to be on your own and take care of your self, There is always pleanty of time to have a kid, trust me. I have two and im 21
She probably went through the same thing when she was younger.
Telling her now and explaining it all to her will be stressful but its best to tell the truth. she will be understanding and possibly help you get on birthcontrol.
Please use condoms, i think you can get them free at health clinics, just call and ask around. One call to find out for condoms can save you a life time of child raising.
If you dont turn out pregnant and keep having unproteced sex ask your self this >>>>>
>>Are you gonna finish school if pregnant( since min wage is now gonna be $7.55 hr no education will get you min wage)
>>Is he gonna really stick around if your pregnant(alot of guys wanna hang out with their friends instead of do the fatherly thing and help out)
>>Who is gonna provide food, clothing, and shelter ( babies can go through 8-10 cans of powder formula every month or less they can be up to $20 a can depending what the baby can handle, they can go through 3-4 packages of diapers a month all that together is a good cpl to a few hundred there and with the economy being bad WIC is going down on the amount of formula they are giving out)
>>Who is gonna watch your child while you work to pay for everything it needs.( day care alone you need to pay around $100-$250 A week for care depending the age and where you live)
When you have a baby your life changes. Your friends, fun time, and everything you did when you had free time come last. Your priority is raising your child and providing the best for him or her.
You can ask your parents for help, but you cant rely on them forever to help you raise your baby. They want to see you grow up and be able to be on your own and take care of your self, There is always pleanty of time to have a kid, trust me. I have two and im 21
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YEAHH iF iM NOT i WiLL NOT B HAViN UNPROTECTD SEX AGAiN. UNTiL i'M READYY. iM CURRENTLY WORKiN 3 JOBS JUST iN CASE N JUST TO SAVE UP.. LUCKLY NON OF THEM R MiM. WAGE! SO iM GOiN TO WAiT N C WHAT HAPPENS....
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Hello, I was just reading your story. I am having similar symptoms. I wondered, since it has been over a year, what was the outcome? Thanks
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