Is it wrong if I don't want to pleasure him at the same way as he do it to me?

Your not wrong.  Although mutual orgasm is desirable, we all know that it's difficult to achieve.  The next best thing is that each person has a fantastic orgasm and that is best achieved when one partner is focused on the other.

Thats what my wife and I do.  I ensure she has a mind blowing orgasm, then it's my turn.

He wants me to fondle, lick and suck his penis!

You don't like making love to his Penis? Thats a tough one. What's holding you back from doing that?

I am afraid that he may CUM in my MOUTH! Although, I know he enjoys and I do like to lick the sides,
of his manhood, and once in a while, while licking suck it, but to just suck it continuously makes me worry!

I agree with Johne except that I make love to my wifes vulva/vagina but she wants nothing to do with my penis. We have survived almost 50 years of marriage with me being the only love maker so I masturbate a lot. One time I asked her if she would be willing to touch it if I got circumcised and she said NO. So she simply does not want to touch it at all while I love licking her vulva/vagina/clit and sucking on her nipples. I love to try to get my tongue as far into her vagina as I can. I am not allowed to squeeze her breasts as that hurts. I have to be very careful when fondling her breasts or she says that hurts.

I can only dream about how wonderful it must feel to have a wife who would do as much as you say you do with his penis. To me, not sucking on it until I cum would not be any problem at all as long as she would fondle it and make love to it. It sounds like you do make love to his penis but just don't want him to cum in your mouth. I would never complain about that. I don't see anything wrong with not wanting him to cum in your mouth.

There is so much you can do to make his penis feel loved and especially if he has a foreskin the possibilities are mind blowing.

I think the issue here is communication.  The best sex achieved is when each person knows the others likes and dislikes.  The closer you get to your spouse the more you will trust him and he will know what's best for you.

i would say for me, this didn't happen over night.  It took a while and what I liked or didn't like years ago has changed.  That will likely happen with you guys.  So give that a try.  

One more thing, maybe you should just tell him your fear of cuming in your mouth and suggest that you give it with a try with a condum to help getting over the fear and that one day you may not need it.  Just a suggestion.....

good luck

It is everyone's personnel interest. There is nothing wrong saying No to your husband/BF. My wife and I are virgin and our first sex was during our first night. For couple of years we had long foreplay with intercourse.
So it is up to women's interest and they will show their interest when the time comes. If both enjoy each other, that's really great for both and love and affection will be stronger than ever.

No it is not necessary. I have been married for long years. My husband loves to lick, suck and drink many parts in my body. He love natural juice from my body, more he lick my body, more I enjoy his love on me. He spend long time with my vagina, I get many orgasm and produce lots of cumm for him, he drink and lick till I am exhausted, that give me boost to have long intercourse and he satisfy me with long intercourse. One day morning before shower, I noticed husband's penis got erected and want long intercourse. First I thought let him insert in my vagina and give me long intercourse, then I thought let me smell and lick, Since it was too hot day we both are sweating heavily. I pulled his pajama down, kissed all over, licked slightly his balls, wow, I found why he licks and suck me, then continued licking all over, when I licked his top tip, that kicked me to heaven, I sucked long time, he was massaging my boobs very madly, when he was in climax, he said take your mouth out, I didn't and continued sucking and increased speed, he pumped heavy thick cumm inside my mouth, wow, wonderful taste, I drank and licked till last drop. Then he carried me to bed, licked all over my body long time, then gave me very long intercourse and pumped another load inside vagina, then we had another long intercourse in shower.

Trust me, interest on licking, sucking and drinking each other's cumm should come naturally by love and affection.

Thank you all very much for sharing experience in eating each other's juice. After I ready all the articles here two weeks ago, Last Sunday after we both cleaned the house, I decided to surprise my hubby. When he was shaving his face in bathroom , I undressed me to nude, opened the door, he turned saw me in nude, he was already nude, his penis got erected and pointing me to drill and screw my vagina. Immediately I sat on floor, kissed all over balls, licked his penis wow, he said, I planned for tonight and want to screw my heaven long time and many time. I didn't say I sucked for long time, after 15 minutes of sucking and massaging, his penis pumped wonderful thick very sweet juice inside my mouth, I drank and licked till end. He said I always drink yours and never expected this. I told him I never knew your cumm will be very sweet, I wasted many years, tonight I will give you anything you want. That night he spent an hour to lick and suck natural sweating from all over body, sucked my vagina and drank juice during three long intercourse we had. I kissed him lot and told him, from now on wards I will drink yours once a week. Trust me I end up with drinking his cumm every three days before he take morning shower. It helps my health lot