I lost my virginity 2 weeks after my period. I am on the pill but forgot to take it the day before it happend. My boyfriend didnt use a condom, but he didnt get any inside of me. There was no bleeding or pain during sex, so my friends dont think i really lost my virginity then. Is there any chance that i could get pregnant or that i even lost my virginity.
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Did you double up your pill the next day? (when you double up its always best to leave at least 2 hrs in between each pill)
Either way the pill prevents pregnancy 99% of the time even if he did get some inside of you so you don't have anything to worry about- in terms of pregnancy.
Sorry to break the news to you but if he "inserted" himself, you are no longer a virgin. You don't need to bleed to have lost your virginity... your "hymen" could have already been broke for a number of reasons: excersize, tampon use, ect ect.
The thing you DO need to concern yourself with is STD's. I commend you for being on the pill, that is great because its a wonderful way to prevent pregnancy which is a HUGE responsibility...but so is sex. I hope you are well aware (and trust) his sexual background....I know it sounds weird but before I got married and I had a boyfriend that I was planning on having intercourse with with out condoms (because I,too, was on the pill) we would always go to a "couples" appt at my towns clinic first and get our STD testing together...its a very responsiable thing to do and it doesn't mean you don't trust the person...any responsiable man or woman would want to do this if they want to enjoy sex without condoms. Just a thought. If you haven't done the "talk" (where you talk about partners) and the testing thing- better late then never...go get tested together and be open with one another (even though you were a virgin if your not absolutely positive he was it might make him feel better if you do it too-plus not that your not and you had intercourse without STD protection it wouldn't hurt) - a lot of STDs are for life just like babies only these aren't so cute and cuddley.
Be safe and don't worry about being pregnant...no, you are no longer a virgin but that doesn't mean you have to have sex all the time now or you have to tell others...its a private and personal thing and if you are not ready to take on this much responsibility then "reclaim" your virginity...no one ever said you cant do that (physically it won't come back but thats your own business and it doesn't mean a whole lot)
Either way the pill prevents pregnancy 99% of the time even if he did get some inside of you so you don't have anything to worry about- in terms of pregnancy.
Sorry to break the news to you but if he "inserted" himself, you are no longer a virgin. You don't need to bleed to have lost your virginity... your "hymen" could have already been broke for a number of reasons: excersize, tampon use, ect ect.
The thing you DO need to concern yourself with is STD's. I commend you for being on the pill, that is great because its a wonderful way to prevent pregnancy which is a HUGE responsibility...but so is sex. I hope you are well aware (and trust) his sexual background....I know it sounds weird but before I got married and I had a boyfriend that I was planning on having intercourse with with out condoms (because I,too, was on the pill) we would always go to a "couples" appt at my towns clinic first and get our STD testing together...its a very responsiable thing to do and it doesn't mean you don't trust the person...any responsiable man or woman would want to do this if they want to enjoy sex without condoms. Just a thought. If you haven't done the "talk" (where you talk about partners) and the testing thing- better late then never...go get tested together and be open with one another (even though you were a virgin if your not absolutely positive he was it might make him feel better if you do it too-plus not that your not and you had intercourse without STD protection it wouldn't hurt) - a lot of STDs are for life just like babies only these aren't so cute and cuddley.
Be safe and don't worry about being pregnant...no, you are no longer a virgin but that doesn't mean you have to have sex all the time now or you have to tell others...its a private and personal thing and if you are not ready to take on this much responsibility then "reclaim" your virginity...no one ever said you cant do that (physically it won't come back but thats your own business and it doesn't mean a whole lot)
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