Hi ive been with my partner 20 years, hes 45 im 39 our sex life is hit and miss, he can get a hard on if he touches himself without me there and if i give him oral sex, but the second he goes to enter me it goes soft very quick and things end there, in 20 year hes never gave me oral sex or even touched me down there with his hands, so this problems a big thing for me, i have strayed and been behind his back a long time ago which he knows about and i hate myself for it, weve both gained a bit weight and are both on medications, but i dont think these are the problems as we been on meds ages and gained weight ages ago and things were ok after them, he has never had a very high sex drive were as im very highly sexed, he always likes me to say ive been with other women during sex and tell him what ive done with them and sometimes i do this just so i can have sex, mostly sex is him getting a blow job and i get nowt, i love him millions but think all these problems are too much, weve talked about all these problems but things never change, any advice wud be greatful xx
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