ive been with the same boy for three years. weve never been with anyone else so i know we're both clean. a little more than six months ago i lost my virginity. every time we have sex, (which isnt that often, he doesnt want to bc it hurts me so much) it hurts so bad i cant take it. a little past insertion it hurts, sort of like a harsh stabbing feeling. sometimes once he gets past that it doesnt hurt so much, just tight and uncomfortable. he has a big penis, i dont know if that has anything to do with it. fingering doesnt hurt me at all. weve tried all different positions, when im on top and in control its just as bad. could it be that he never broke the hymen? is there something wrong with me? he says he doesnt mind that we cant have sex, we have oral instead which is great, but it bothers me. please help!
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you need to address this with your gynecologist. you may have an unusually thick hymen that will not tear normally. if this is the case they can perform surgery to remove it
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