Masturbation problem... (12-13)

dont feel guilty theres alot of people that do it and its a normal thing and it is safer than sex

Masturbation is natural and very normal.Those who don't masturbate are actually considered to be "not normal" not as a person , but masturbation is definitely more normal than not,

There is no reason to feel dirty about what you're doing. It's actually a very healthy way of releasing yourself . 9 out of 10 people masturbate. Guilt is a heavy thing to carry . Try to let go of the guilt and stop telling yourself you need to stop. What you're doing is completely normal . "NATURAL " You are perfectly normal and healthy . If this doesn't help try looking up more information and reading about it . You'll find you're upsetting yourself over something that is more normal than not,

Why do you want to stop a thing like this.It is so GOOD,and it do no harm.Just do it so often you can.I have done it since I was 7-8 year.I am a boy at 14 now,and I love to masterbate:))

try doing less and less unlit is is one time a month

well it has been over a year now. have you stopped masturbating. I don't know why you went overboard jerking off but you need to handle it
a lot better.

Hi Camilatary:

I do not know how to stop masturbating. It is normal and healthy. You are now in puberty and you actually need to masturbate.

Masturbation is relaxing, pleasant, enjoyable, harmless, healthy, normal, and contributes to restful sleep if done before bedtime. Masturbation relieves pain from overfilled seminal vesicles. Frequent masturbation prevents wet dreams. Regular ejaculation is associated with better prostate health. Masturbation is a great stress reliever.

You may masturbate as much or as little as you wish. You may do it in any place where you have privacy. There is no upper or lower age limit for masturbation.

The internally lubricated movable nerve-laden foreskin and its gliding action is an important aid to masturbation.

Circumcision was introduced to unforeskin the penis and make it impossible to masturbate. It did not stop masturbation but it made it harder to do.

How you do it depends on whether you have an internally lubricated movable foreskin that glides up and down the shaft or whether you have been unforeskinned.

If you are foreskinned, then all you need to do is glide your foreskin back and forth. The foreskin is internally lubricated with lymphatic fluid and glides without friction. The numerous nerves inside the foreskin are stimulated by the motion and generate pleasurable sensations.

Long and vigorous masturbation can cause the foreskin to become edematous and swollen, which is painless and not a cause for alarm. The edema usually goes down within about 24 hours. Pulling back too hard is apt to stretch the frenulum and may tear it.

If you are unforeskinned and the skin is taut and immovable, then you will need some lubrication and you need to slide your hand up and down the shaft. You will likely injure yourself without lubricant. Friction burns are common when a male without foreskin masturbates without lubricant. Some lubricants are baby oil, vegetable oil, personal lubricant, soapy water, and saliva.

It is common for an unforeskinned male, who has been deprived of his internally lubricated foreskin, to have friction burns if he does not apply external lubricant.

There are many myths about masturbation, which simply are not true.

Masturbation does NOT cause insanity.
Masturbation does NOT cause you to go blind.
Masturbation does NOT cause sleeplessness.
Masturbation does NOT cause hair to grow in your palms.
Masturbation does NOT change hair color.
Masturbation does NOT cause baldness.
Masturbation does NOT cause impotence.
Masturbation does NOT prevent fathering children.
Masturbation does NOT slow down puberty.
Masturbation does NOT stunt your growth.
Masturbation does NOT suck out the nutrients.
Masturbation does NOT lower your testosterone.
Masturbation does NOT raise your testostorone.
Masturbation does NOT cause gynecomastia.
Masturbation does NOT cause pain in the testes.
Masturbation does NOT cause premature ejaculation.
Masturbation does NOT affect height.
Masturbation does NOT cause penile curvature.
Masturbation does NOT affect penis size.
Masturbation does NOT decrease stamina.
Masturbation does NOT cause muscle weakness.
Masturbation does NOT reduce muscle mass.
Masturbation does NOT cause pimples.
Masturbation does NOT cause acne.
Masturbation does NOT cause loss of blood.
Masturbation does NOT cause blood to flow from the urethra.
Masturbation does NOT cause your body to smell like a fish.
Masturbation does NOT make your bones softer.
Masturbation does NOT slow the growth of your penis.
Masturbation does NOT make your penis weak.
Masturbation does NOT make your penis smaller.
Masturbation does NOT release hormones.
Masturbation does NOT make you sexually weak.
Masturbation does NOT cause nerve problems.
Masturbation does NOT cause memory problems.
Masturbation does NOT cause cancer.
Masturbation does NOT cause back pain.
Masturbation does NOT cause stomachache.
Masturbation does NOT cause body aches.
Masturbation does NOT cause headache.
Masturbation does NOT make you thin and skinny.
Masturbation does NOT harm the kidneys.
Masturbation does NOT cause prostate cancer.
Masturbation does NOT cause psoriasis.
Masturbation does NOT cause blurred vision.
Masturbation does NOT cause hair fall.
Masturbation does NOT cause death.
Masturbation does NOT cause infection.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Masturbation#Male

Nothing wrong in masturbating but STOP watching the porn, while you masturbate just think of some females that perhaps you have seen during the day, particularly the ones with large breasts and short skirts, porn is just a lot of men or women acting up in front of a camera.

I have been masturbating reguarly for almost 50 years, and have never felt bad about this, except for dealing with the mess of my ejaculated semen. Having sadly never found a life partner masturbation has actually been helpful to me...A great release....and something privately enjoyed,and looked forward to.Donot worry about it....

Congratulations Henddy for your post telling us you have been masturbating regularly for almost 50 years, a great achievement, I assume you started at about 13, so you are now in your early 60's. I started also about that time, however, when I got married I stopped masturbating as I am not in that school of thought that both masturbating and making love go hand in hand (excuse the pun). Yea, hand on penis when I was single and now widowed, I am now back masturbating in my 60's almost just as much as I was before I got married. Ejaculation of semen does cause a bit of a mess but I use paper towels to catch it when it come out so that's not too big a issue with me. No man should worry about masturbating whatsoever, enjoy