He was my first and when we started having sex I would cum all the time. Now the only time I cum is when I do it myself but I haven't told him that. Ever since I got pregnant I've been very insecure about my body and he makes it worse. He doesn't take the time to warm me up, just sticks it in and finishes quickly. If he gets sex all the time wouldn't he last longer? Sometimes it feels uncomfortable for me but I know it's know it is important to continue intimacy and he complains if we dont so I give him head. He hasn't given me oral in months now and now he uses my pregnancy as an excuse on why he wont even though I continue to do it for him. I know there is nothing wrong down there I make sure I wash regulary because of infections. It's making me feel very insecure on top of already feeling extremely unsexy because of my new body. Is this normal behavior? Am I being selfish for bringing it up over and over again? I really feel like I'm being a burden and that's the last thing I want to be. Is this my problem and he's doing nothing wrong?
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I have the same issue. After giving birth he won't go done there at all. It's annoying. The only time I can get him to is by 69. We've talked about it but he doesn't ever have anything to say. I stopped going down on him since he's not doing anything to me and we'll see how that goes. We also took a break from sex for a week to work on our relationship and improve ourselves as a couple and then had sex but he didn't do anything other then finger me. It's getting old I feel your pain. It make you feel unwanted and useless and gross. But know that we are not gross, they are just slacking lol. I'm sure when we don't bring it up and make them feel like they are strong capable men it'll happen more often. I've been doing research and there is a paleoithic male thing where their instincts are to hunt and protect and if they don't feel like they are doing those things and taking care of the family then they become emotionally shut down and aren't interested in talking about feelings, being very intimate or anything else. I feel like if you try to make him feel like he's doing a great job at taking care of you guys and well boost his self esteem it could possibly happen. Best of luck :) I'm trying the same thing so I really hope it works!!
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