well im with someone else and im gettin on top w him just fine!!! and it is very nice! i just cant sit up all the way and ride it! lol but... yeah...
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well first of all i dont have internet at home so it takes me a while to reply! and im not underage...
but im happy to say that im with someone else now and im gettin on top just fine! it is great! lol i cant relaly sit up all the way and ride it but... its still nice!
but im happy to say that im with someone else now and im gettin on top just fine! it is great! lol i cant relaly sit up all the way and ride it but... its still nice!
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Dont be self conscious...guys sometimes LIKE to be on the bottom, so he can just relax while you ride him...usually its results in better penetration
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Yeah, "cowgirl on top" or "sitting up astride" doesn't actually involve sitting up straight to ride it... but it can be quite pleasurable to be leaning forward a bit when "riding".... more in a crouch, or leaning forward when riding a bike, motorcycle or horse, if you follow me.
So, lean forward if you like, and enjoy! :D
[Perhaps another thing to keep in mind... when you're on top, you're in charge of the motion, tempo and your own stimulation. Your partner, underneath you, is in the passive role, and so doesn't get to control things. He gets what he gets, and mainly, that's the pleasure of watching you get off on "using" him. You should be moving for YOUR pleasure...driving toward YOUR orgasm...not his (but if it happens, that's fine too.) Just make sure you're into it, cause there are few mood-killers like a partner who isn't enjoying it but just going through the motions cause they think they have to.]
So, lean forward if you like, and enjoy! :D
[Perhaps another thing to keep in mind... when you're on top, you're in charge of the motion, tempo and your own stimulation. Your partner, underneath you, is in the passive role, and so doesn't get to control things. He gets what he gets, and mainly, that's the pleasure of watching you get off on "using" him. You should be moving for YOUR pleasure...driving toward YOUR orgasm...not his (but if it happens, that's fine too.) Just make sure you're into it, cause there are few mood-killers like a partner who isn't enjoying it but just going through the motions cause they think they have to.]
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Your partner wants what you have! If you are bigger, don't worry...he is turned on by you and wants to explore more sexual adventures with you...so enjoy it! The more confident you are the more enjoyment the both of you will have. Guys love to see it all and watch it all bounce around. If you still feel a little insecure with your body, you could always just put on a cute tank top and then climb on and go from there. Just relax, take a breath and ease into it. If you're not ready, you're not ready and that's okay too.
But be sure to realize that your partner appreciates what you have or else he wouldn't be there wanting more! Confidence is key! The more comfortable you are with your body, the more enjoyment you will have sexually. When you try it, there isn't just one way to do it, try a variety of positions on top and styles of moving your body, you'll know what works best!
But be sure to realize that your partner appreciates what you have or else he wouldn't be there wanting more! Confidence is key! The more comfortable you are with your body, the more enjoyment you will have sexually. When you try it, there isn't just one way to do it, try a variety of positions on top and styles of moving your body, you'll know what works best!
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ive been doing it like that for a while and sometimes i dont get off so i change to rear position and its great within two mins im there.
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im a bit bigger then my boyfriend and i dont have that much experiance on top how do i know what to do.
cause i want to please him he is on top all the time.
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That depends on how you position yourself. If you sit on him like riding a horse you just lower yourself down onto his penis and move up and down. You have to try that out to see how it works for both of you. In that position you are in control of everything. How fast and how deep is up to you. If you can't sit all the way down without it being uncomfortable for you because he's in too deep and hitting your cervix it may be tiring for you to hold yourself up far enough. If his penis stands up straight against his belly when erect it may be uncomfortable for him to have it bent down also. You need to be careful about lifting up too far so his penis comes out though. It can hurt a lot if it misses the hole on your way back down and can even cause damage. They had a guy with a broken penis on "Sex Sent Me to the ER" recently because that happened.
If none of those things are problem it's a lot of fun to ride him. If you like to have him look at you it's a perfect position for him to admire you during sex and play with your breasts too. I loved being ridden and the feeling of her being in control. I couldn't escape when I was coming so she could force me to endure coming with no relief until she was done riding. You can also turn around and ride him backwards if he can take it. That bends his penis down even more. Try rocking back and forth when sitting on him instead of lifting up and down. If he has a foreskin try retracting it fully so it's stretched tight when you rock back and forth. I found that felt great.
Another way is just like the old missionary position but with you on top. Then you just imitate the same moves he would be doing if he was on top or you can slide up and down but that works better if you oil up your bellys a bit. You just need to experiment to see how you like it and what is easiest for you.
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Yes. I don't get off with him on top but if I'm on top i rub my clit on his penis and it gets me off that way and him too cause he loves watching me
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If he wants you to get on top you get on top. My boyfriend wanted me on top so that's what I did the next time we had sex. I do as he says. Works out well.
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