recently i and my bf were making out.it was the first time when i was going to touch him down but when i did he did not get an erection which was a big turn off for me as iam thinking that either he is gay or even impotent or is it tht i did not satisfy him or turn him on when i asked him tht whts the problem he said he was nervous.is it possible for a guy to get nervous n therefore the erection doesnt come. .iam really confused please help me ...the thought tht he is either gay or impotent is scaring the hell out of me. please reply soon
Loading...
Hi honey! Your brain is the BIGGEST sex organ in your body! And stress is the most common "ailment" for men and women! Have you heard the old expression "Not tonight dear I have a headache!"? Well this is true about stress! IF this was going to be his frist time he was thinking non stop about how he was going to be etc! He would be thinking about his size, his "talent", his body etc etc etc! Just like you would too if he did that too you! It is a VERY overwhelming time! And also when you see these music videos etc, and listen to the lyrics of songs, ALL teenagers and young people think that sex is just this CRAZY writhing around and orgasms etc etc. IF that was the case no one would be going to work or school!!!! 8-| XD It's not only the body, but emotional, and mental as well! If a man or a woman is tired there goes their libido! so don't automatically think the poor guy is gay, because he didnt' get an erection! This is SO common - but of course NO one is going to talk about it! Believe me honey he will be MORTIFIED that he buddy didn't "rise to the occaision" So If you love him, you will not be so hard on him! I will tell you he probably feels REALLY bad right now! Good luck and helath! And always remember to use protection ALWAYS!
Loading...