Me and my boyfriend hang out on weekends. We watch movies at night. Then he starts to kiss me and makes his way on top of me than puts his hand down my pants. I pull it out cause its feel sort of weird. He started doing it again last night but this time he asked me to hump him. I said no. He took me to the bedroom and started to undress me. And I went along. All he did was get his penis not even in me. It was about to but I stopped cause I don't know how to hump or have sex. Someone help?
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Hi Leah, I'm not sure how old you are but it is really, really important to know that your body is yours. You have the right to decide who touches you and how they touch you, and to say no and to expect them to stop when you do say no. Do not rush into sex. It might seem like fun and like everyone is doing it. And boys might try to pressure you into it by saying things like 'if you really love me you'd have sex with me', or 'if you won't have sex with me I will dump you'. Those are not the type of boys you want as a boyfriend. They only care about themselves. You deserve better. Before you even think about having sex learn about sexual health, contraception and good relationships. If sex ed at school hasn't provided that information go to the library and get a book on the subject, or from the web, but be really careful about which sites you go to. There is a lot of wrong information on the web which is why I suggested a book. A great book is called 'girl stuff' but it is Australian and might not be available where you are. Your friends are not a good source if information either. Your parents might be but it depends on there views on sexuality and the type of relationship you have.
Sexually transmitted infections and unplanned pregnancy aren't fun. You don't want to be back here in 2 months time asking 'am I pregnant'. When you decide to have sex always use a condom. Every time. They protect against pregnancy and most but not all sexually transmitted diseases. And take your time. You say your boyfriend wants sex but do you? If the answer is yes and you are old enough and you love and trust him make sure you do it safely. And dont rush into it. If the answer is no then he has to respect that. You have the right to say no. wishing you all the best. Keep safe and don't rush things
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