She is, im proud to say, still a virgin and now she says she is ready & im the one she wants to lose her virginity to :-D . however during our attempts i have been unable to penetrate or at least not past the head of my penis. to my knowledge i am of average length and girth so this isnt the problem. and she is always suitably stimulated(wet).
The problem is it causes her unbearable pain :'( . obviously im not gonna keep pushing on the subject and we will leave it for a while. But is there anything we could/should do between now and then? and anything we could do during to try to help the situation ?
It isnt an issue to me but she is becoming, understandably, frustrated and upset with herself and her body :-( .
Please help!
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I understand this problem, my boyfriend and I are experiencing similar issues. It's likely to be one of two issues - either psychological, or a condition called Vaginismus (which can be caused by a variety of psychological or physical factors). With the latter, I would reccomend that you conduct your own research. I understand this frustration, as my boyfriend has been equally patient and understanding, yet the very first time we attempted penetration, I actually screamed because it was so physically painfull. However, in my case I'm beginning to see that it's purely psychological. In your wife's case, it sounds likely that it's the aforementioned condition, which occurs in a variety of women, for a variety of reasons. best of luck, I hope that things ease up a bit.
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