Hello all.

Im a 24 year old male and felt nervous before sex with a girl I meet last night and couldnt perform. I had a nervous tension knot in my stomach and I felt no arousal at all. Only when we were kissing in the club I could feel myself starting to get aroused but when it came to the sex I wasnt. I have been single for a year and when I was with my ex I was extremely nervous about sex! but I overcome it when I realised it was linked with something that happened in my past. When I past the nervousness me and my ex had really great sex. Now im single I feel i feel confused about what I want. Sometimes I feel I would like a one night stand and other times I want to meet someone who I can have a relationship with. Im pretty sure this is linked to my nervousness about sex. I feel there is so much pressure on young men to be sex machines and think about nothing else. My best mate knows what happened as he knows the girl I was with, and now I feel embarrased and basically not feeling like a man, which has to be stupid. But what has me worried is that if I meet someone I like, and date them, Im afraid i will have the same problem again... help, im really confused