ok so here's the case im 18 and was born with out a vagina doctors prescribed a dilator which ive been using couple days a week and im having surgery in 5 months but recently me and my boyfriend tryed having sex although the opening is not very big only about 4 inches we still tryed thinking it might open faster if we try more often i was wondering does anybody know if i could still cum even if my vigina is not completely open? will i be able to after surgery? while having intercourse i feel as if i wanted too pee is that normal plss help i dnt know anything about this im too embarrased to ask my doctor :$
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You shouldn't be embarrassed to ask your doctor things. I know how you feel though. Try to look at your doctor, not as a person, but as a source of information. He should be able to answer all your questions. If you can't bring yourself to ask your questions, write them down and hand them to him or her. Tell him/her you are embarrassed, but you have questions. (Sometimes just writing the questions down will make you feel better and you'll be able to talk to your doctor easier). Believe me, I'm sure your doctor could write a book about the things people have asked him/her. Your questions certainly won't shock him. And you need information to feel more comfortable with your surgery that is coming up. You should go into surgery feeling positive and confident not wondering about what will happen or how things will be after the surgery.
Take a deep breath, let it out and go ask those questions, you have a right to know and the answers should give you peace of mind.
Take a deep breath, let it out and go ask those questions, you have a right to know and the answers should give you peace of mind.
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Definitely ask the doctor!!!
Ask him/her everything you can think of before you have any operation. Find out exactly what you can expect and tell her/him what YOU expect. Make absolutely sure you are going to get what YOU want before allowing them to do any type of elective surgery on you. IT'S YOUR BODY!!!! If your boyfriend is THE ONE, get him in on this too. Two people asking questions is always better than one.
What do you mean by "cum"? do you mean orgasm or are you wanting to ejaculate. The feeling of wanting to pee during vaginal sex is usually the way women describe the feeling just before they ejaculate (squirt).
Most women don't get an orgasm through vaginal sex, but by clitoral stimulation instead. If you have a clitoris and you can work it to orgasm now I don't think that will go away.
Do you know exactly what you have or don't have? Is it just a very small/tight opening, or do you not have a hole/tube with the cervix at the bottom?
You really need to get all this information from your doctor and have it explained so you understand what you do have and what they are going to do and what you will have when they are done.
Ask him/her everything you can think of before you have any operation. Find out exactly what you can expect and tell her/him what YOU expect. Make absolutely sure you are going to get what YOU want before allowing them to do any type of elective surgery on you. IT'S YOUR BODY!!!! If your boyfriend is THE ONE, get him in on this too. Two people asking questions is always better than one.
What do you mean by "cum"? do you mean orgasm or are you wanting to ejaculate. The feeling of wanting to pee during vaginal sex is usually the way women describe the feeling just before they ejaculate (squirt).
Most women don't get an orgasm through vaginal sex, but by clitoral stimulation instead. If you have a clitoris and you can work it to orgasm now I don't think that will go away.
Do you know exactly what you have or don't have? Is it just a very small/tight opening, or do you not have a hole/tube with the cervix at the bottom?
You really need to get all this information from your doctor and have it explained so you understand what you do have and what they are going to do and what you will have when they are done.
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