So I am 22 years old and I feel like I have an issue with both PE & ED. I don’t believe it’s anything serious since I am young and I do believe it to be fixable but I am having a problem with being able to fix it. 

A little bit about me, I am a light drummer & I smoke marijuana on the daily. I do have a girlfriend we see each other close to once a week we do enjoy sex and we do love sex together. She is also very understanding of the issue and I am trying to figure out ways for me to handle this issue.

Here’s my problem when I’m with her I have not one issue with getting hard the second I’m with her believe me he is standing to attention in no time. But when I’m by myself I don’t EVER get erect. If I were to watch porn & and of read something that has to do with sexual stuff like different positions and tips and tricks to better sex I have no problem with getting turned on. I have considered this to be maybe a porn type of small addiction cause I would only masturbate to porn before this started happening. I have completely stopped watching porn to hopefully help the situation.

Lastly, when I do read these articles or watch porn that gets me off I cum very very very quickly. Sometimes I can barely touch myself or stroke for once or twice before I feel the need to ejaculate. I have heard to fix this to just practice practice practice. Yet the only way I can practice is through masterbation, but I can’t get hard without the use of sexy articles or videos or my gf. 

 

Im not sure on what I can to fix this issue. I also do not get morning wood in the mornings. Sometimes it’ll be a little more sturdy but that is occasional.

 

helpppp thank you!