Hi everyone, I am here on behalf of my girlfriend and myself. We are both in our twenties, and last night we had sex with each other for the first time. She is not on the pill, so of course I used a condom. We got worried when I pulled out at one point and discovered that the condom had slipped off; granted, it was still somewaht "stuck" to my penis, so it must not have been off for some time, but it still gave us a scare.
Now, first of all, I did not ejaculate, nor do I feel that I was close to ejaculation. Of course I have no way of knowing if any pre-ejaculate was released, but I'll assume it was. My most recent ejaculation was two days prior, and I had urinated and bathed several times since then, so I expect that the odds of there being much sperm left in the urethra was fairly low.
Also, embarassing detail, but perhaps worth mentioning: this being our first time having sex with one another, I was feeling stressed to please her, so I had difficulty getting a full erection...that may not mean much, but in a situation such as this one, I feel that all factors are worth mentioning.
Either way, after this scare we immediately stopped having sex and went to take a shower. We spent the rest of the night fully clothed and calmed down; we know that the chances of pregnancy in this type of situation are low. However, I did want to ask what others thought of this situation, and if they felt we should be more worried than we are.
Thanks very much.
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hey guest,
first off i want to thank you for the detailed information as it does all help and saves me/others time of having to ask thoes wuestions. so either you were just smart and informative or you took the time and researched some other posts on the forum with simmilar situations and noticed the types of questions we ask. (either way thank you).
now to your question. your chances of getting pregnate ared very low to non existant in this situation. could there be a SLIGHT risk absolutly but i would be shocked to find out she is pregnate.
keep in mind that stress does cause a womans mensural cycle to become skewed and it delays it. so if shes a little late and has been under stress (especially worrying about being pregnate) then thats nothing to be alarmed about immediatly.
you probably noticed the condom beig a little loose because you were not fully erect. that is probably why the condom slipped in the first place. just try to relax and concentrate on the pleasure and of pleasuring each other. and you should get a stronger erection. remember its a new thing for both of you so neither one expets the other to be a professional star at it.
I hope this info helps and let me know if you have any other questions or concerns.
thanks
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