I have tried having sex quite a few times and failed in all of them. I find myself in excruciating pain when he tries to penetrate me and hence I have never been penetrated. I stay silent in the pain and only stop him when I am close to tears. I have been trying over a year now and becoming more and more clueless about why it should be like this. Please give me the possible reasons behind this.
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Go to a gynecologist. There are a number of reasons this could be happening, and strangers/ non-doctors on the internet are not the ones who can help you. It could be a physical issue or a mental/ emotional issue or both (and yes, extremely likely to be treatable). Additionally, the longer this goes on, the more likely you are to develop other issues around it (ie. fear of additional pain compounding whatever is already going on).
Don't be embarrassed to go to the doctors. It doesn't matter what your age is either.
I wish I had been smart enough to do what I am telling you to do. I had pain on deep thrusting years ago and never mentioned it to anyone. I stopped having sex, and guess what? I have no sex life now, haven't for years, and I am miserable. I'm basically telling you not to f*ck up like I did.
Don't be embarrassed to go to the doctors. It doesn't matter what your age is either.
I wish I had been smart enough to do what I am telling you to do. I had pain on deep thrusting years ago and never mentioned it to anyone. I stopped having sex, and guess what? I have no sex life now, haven't for years, and I am miserable. I'm basically telling you not to f*ck up like I did.
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