is it possible to ease the pain of sex for a women by having her take a painkiller before? The penetration hurts a lot and i want to know if that can help
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No, I doubt it will help. Try easing the pain by using more lubrication, having more foreplay, and making sure shes very relaxed. Go slow. It should hurt less the more you do it.
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Well, i'm the girl in the situation. I was just hoping there was a chance that my idea would work. I'm so damn frustrated because i'm emotionally i'd really like to do this with him but my body doesn't seem to want to let me. I think definitely a part of it is because i'm tensing up unintentionally, because that's what he keeps telling me, but i cant just be completely relaxed because i know how much it hurts me. That's why i wish a painkiller would just ease my anxiety a bit about the pain.. Why do you think it won't work??
thanks so muc h for answering
thanks so muc h for answering
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Well I suppose if they were pretty good painkillers it might numb the pain I guess. I suppose it's worth trying next time? I just honestly don't think it will make much difference because having sex is a lot different from say... a headache or something. A headache will go away but if you're trying to have sex then you're going to be "provoking" the pain? I'm not sure that makes sense haha
But yeah, the tensing up will definitely make it worse. How much foreplay do you usually have? Maybe if you were more aroused and in the moment...
But yeah, the tensing up will definitely make it worse. How much foreplay do you usually have? Maybe if you were more aroused and in the moment...
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there's a lot of foreplay , a lot of oral, and a lot of lube. . but still not happening. ha, its very depressing.
Yeah i guess a painkiller is worth a shot, i just want to get the initial pain over with then maybe ill be ok
Yeah i guess a painkiller is worth a shot, i just want to get the initial pain over with then maybe ill be ok
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this person who started this has to be putting the tools in the wrong tool box and it doesn't fit try to place the tool that you are using in a different location and maybe it will not hurt. if that don't work try doing the business yourself and maybe be you can come up with a non painful way to get yourself aroused. Painkillers will not work for this problem.
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Pain killers suck when having sex- they do just numb the good feeling and they make you feel out of it- but they do not help when it comes to penitration either bc you can still feel it and the pressure- if you have plenty of lube it shouldn't hurt you like you say
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Ok here's the scoop ladies, a lot of it is probably anxiety and there's lots u can try and lots u can do for it such as trying to relax and not think of the pain because the pain does go away. Also there is professional help as well different therapies and relaxing tips u can use I do know that the smell of lavendar is very calming and relaxing as well. You are not alone many women struggle withis problem believe it or not its just finding what's right for you. Also pain killers will not work for that because its a lot of anxiety associated with the pain and its not the kind it'll get rid of. A muscle relaxer on the other hand may work it may actually something but I have to stress this u will still experience pain. The best I can tell u is lube excitement get lost in the moment, lavendar scent relax try massages litlle finger massagers at first, also body massages to relieve some of the pressure of having sex, if that doesn't work u can keep searching on the net but some types of therapy works as well u have to find them u have already done the first step which is admitting its an issue and coming to terms with it. Good luck hope I helped!
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Hi Did you ever find a solution to the pain? I currently have the same problem and was also considering a pain killer first.
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I'm on Tylenol #3 to ease pain from top teeth extraction.my bf and I tried having sex last night after waiting almost a week. Usually the sex is so awesome , he's a great size and I usually come every time . But not last night . It felt numb. I could maybe feel 40% good feeling. He came but sadly I didn't . So I told him about it. He felt bad . We're gonna wait til I'm off the meds to try again . I don't advise to use pain
Killers before sex
Killers before sex
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im currently having the same problem so what should i do? while penetrating it hurts me a lot even with lube and lubricated condoms
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I am currently having the same problems as everyone else. It mostly hurts when he trys to penetrate. He doesnt want to have sex with me anymore and that makes me feel unattractive. I also have a lot of anxiety and was sexually abused as a child. It has never been a problem until two weeks ago, please someone help.
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I was thinking of asking my doctor to prescribe a muscle relaxer. I sometimes will take 2 Advil before and it seems to help relax me and my muscles and does not interfere with feeling pleasure. What do you think?
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