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Im sixteen and me and my boyfriend have had sex twice. Before we had the first time we were messing around without a condom, but inserted only maybe 2 or 3 inches. Im very nervous considering ive heard you can get pregnant from precum, but what about partial insertion? Both times we have had sex i didnt bleed, so im not sure if I am still a virgin. We also used condoms and pulled out.
I would appreciate if someone could tell me if I could get pregnant from messing around that one time.
and if so, how early are symptoms?
much thanks.

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Please read the "precum Faqs" sticky at the top of this forum.

Insertion is considered intercourse- whether you are still a "virgin" or not is a matter of opinion but I would say "no" whether he was in just a little or all the way is irrelevent and whether or not you hymen is broke doesnt really classify virginity because most girls break their hyman with excersise, tampons or some other way before they ever have sex so doctors really dont use that to indicate whether your a virgin or not anymore.....
generally "pre-cum" doesnt have a high risk of pegnancy although its not impossiable...Personally I wouldn't be worried about it. Although since its obvious you either have become or soon will become sexually active seriously consider getting on the birth control pill...its the most effective form of birth control and even though you will still need to concern yourself with STD possibilities you won't have to worry about babies...PLUS, most pills will make your period shorter and lighter and much more predictable...Understand that it might take trying 2 or 3 different kinds before you find the one that s right for you... and I generally do not recommend that girls get on Yaz (because its so new and has has a signifigant amount of side effects complaints) or Depo (Has a lOT more side effects and after the first "dose" you are commited to it for at least 3 months regardless) AND most towns have a free or low cost clinic they can go to and no matter who you see parental permission or even awareness is not required... if by some crazy chance you are pregnant (very doubtful) it will be at least 2 weeks after the "act" efore a test would show or you would even noticed or possiably notice any difference....And if u were in your fertile "time" 2 weeks after should be when your period is due anyways... Be safe, good luck
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I know you posted some time ago and I assume you have resolved the issue by now. But it is VERY unlikely that you are pregnant. Nature makes it easy, but not THAT easy.

It is true that precum CAN include some sperm, especially as his body "ramps up" to orgasm, or if he is approaching a second ejaculation and he hasn't urinated between them to "clear the system" so to speak. But rubbing your genitals together, even bathing your clitoris in his precum (which feels lovely, by the way) is not likely to get you pregnant. In fact, he could actually ejaculate against your vulva and clitoris, and chances are still low. (Cumming on your belly has the same low risk, except that sperm may have been leaking out into you prior to his pulling out. Even cumming inside your anus and then having it drip down toward your vagina would not automatically result in pregnancy.) Sperm has to be pushed into you to get it started toward your cervix. The depth that a penis needs to be inside the vagina when considering precum is debatable, unfortunately. A lot of conditions need to line up: How long was he inside you at that depth? Was he close enough to cumming that his body may already have been sending sperm through the system? Remember, too, that your hymen can let sperm in the same way it lets menstruation out -- if there's a large enough volume of semen being pushed through. Once inside your vagina there are all kinds of hazards and roadblocks for the sperm to reach their target (which is why he ejaculates so many of them each time he cums), so, the miniscule number that might possibly be in his precum would literally have an "uphill" battle to get deep enough inside you to make you pregnant. The interior environment of your vagina is designed to actually make it hard for the sperm to survive very long. This is kind of an elegant method of ensuring that only the strongest, healthiest, and most vigorous sperm get to the target. HOWEVER, if you are all wet from him (and yourself), then do be careful about slipping fingers into your vagina, as you COULD push any sperm present on the OUTSIDE in toward your cervix.

So, SHORT ANSWER -- The chances are low that you were made pregnant by your lovemaking ... this time. Take the hint, and play it safe. Good Luck!

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