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When I Met My Now Husband 18 Mths Ago,it Soon Became Clear He Had A Low Sex Drive.that Didnt Bother Me Too Greatly,the Once A Week We Did It It Was Good Enough.....although He Could Never Come Inside Me And It Did Go On For Ever..9 Times Out Of 10 He Didnt Ejaculate At All...............
Told Myself Things Would Improve But They Have Got Much Worse Over The Past 7mths Or So..we Married On 20th May 06 And have attempted sex twice both unsuccessful..Now he wont came near me at all...
Finally We Had A Good Chat About It And This Is what he told me,
He Has No Sexual Desire At All.................tried Everything And Nothing Gets Him Going..............so No Erection
He Has No Sensation At The End Of His Penis And His Testicules Seem To Be Shrinking???
So we went to the doctors had testosterone levels checked and throid and glucose all normal.............Doctor says its phycological and perscribed viagra.But how can ingesting a pill give him the desire........Surely it will be a mechanical act and nothing else..............
Anyway i think he does not intend to take them as they have been in the cubboard for a week and he wont discuss it.........
Other Than That ,No Other Health Problems,fit And Well,not overweight and has enough excercise...........He goes to golf everyday and im happy with that as its the only time i see him excited about anything............He sleeps for England and an excellent appitite....No Money Worries ,he definatly is not having an affair....Life Could Be Perfect.............
But This Sex Thing Is Tearing Us Apart,he Feels Useless and is resigned almost And I Feel Like The Ugliest Woman In The World........
He dosnt seem to understand there are two people in this living nightmare........And im the one who cant eat,sleep and whose health is suffering ,because im so worried our marriage is over before its started...
I have told him i need kisses and cuddles to bridge the gap where lovemaking used to be but he treats me like a sister............. Please please help............ Im desperate
When I Met My Now Husband 18 Mths Ago,it Soon Became Clear He Had A Low Sex Drive.that Didnt Bother Me Too Greatly,the Once A Week We Did It It Was Good Enough.....although He Could Never Come Inside Me And It Did Go On For Ever..9 Times Out Of 10 He Didnt Ejaculate At All...............
Told Myself Things Would Improve But They Have Got Much Worse Over The Past 7mths Or So..we Married On 20th May 06 And have attempted sex twice both unsuccessful..Now he wont came near me at all...
Finally We Had A Good Chat About It And This Is what he told me,
He Has No Sexual Desire At All.................tried Everything And Nothing Gets Him Going..............so No Erection
He Has No Sensation At The End Of His Penis And His Testicules Seem To Be Shrinking???
So we went to the doctors had testosterone levels checked and throid and glucose all normal.............Doctor says its phycological and perscribed viagra.But how can ingesting a pill give him the desire........Surely it will be a mechanical act and nothing else..............
Anyway i think he does not intend to take them as they have been in the cubboard for a week and he wont discuss it.........
Other Than That ,No Other Health Problems,fit And Well,not overweight and has enough excercise...........He goes to golf everyday and im happy with that as its the only time i see him excited about anything............He sleeps for England and an excellent appitite....No Money Worries ,he definatly is not having an affair....Life Could Be Perfect.............
But This Sex Thing Is Tearing Us Apart,he Feels Useless and is resigned almost And I Feel Like The Ugliest Woman In The World........
He dosnt seem to understand there are two people in this living nightmare........And im the one who cant eat,sleep and whose health is suffering ,because im so worried our marriage is over before its started...
I have told him i need kisses and cuddles to bridge the gap where lovemaking used to be but he treats me like a sister............. Please please help............ Im desperate
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Dear Elliemay,
I would suggest your husband to tell you the truth about his past, particularly when he was teenage. I think over masturbation in adolescence is one of the main cause for lack of sexual drive and reduction of testicles at alter age. In masturbation, you make more efforts than in a real sex and you can do as much and many times as you can and want since that depend on you and not someone else. People addicted to masturbation find it difficult to get satisfaction with a partner. He must tell you the truth and you together explain that to your doctor for the ultimate solution. Thanks for bringing this important point of intimacy!
Sigauque
I would suggest your husband to tell you the truth about his past, particularly when he was teenage. I think over masturbation in adolescence is one of the main cause for lack of sexual drive and reduction of testicles at alter age. In masturbation, you make more efforts than in a real sex and you can do as much and many times as you can and want since that depend on you and not someone else. People addicted to masturbation find it difficult to get satisfaction with a partner. He must tell you the truth and you together explain that to your doctor for the ultimate solution. Thanks for bringing this important point of intimacy!
Sigauque
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