my patrner has smoiked cannibis for years every day , its the first thung he does in a morning , he drives home across the city at dinner for one , has another as soon as he gets in from work then 3 during the evening the last one being right before bed ,weve been together 3 years and have a 2 year old son i also have 2 older boys , i love him but he,s so unresponsive has no sex drive never kisses or cuddles me and only really speaks to me when i speak to him,i think its the drug that makes him like this,he also behaves very stranely its like he,s always sneaking around alto he,s not actually doing anything, anyway i told him i want a normal bloke who i can comunicate with and asked him to stop, he said noway, but then did 6 weeks asgo, every thing was great we had a proper realationship , but now hes started smoking it again and i asked him would he give it up if it was making me very unhappy and was destroying our realationship HE SAID NO , so now im thinking did he mean it or does he really love that more than me and our son, i feel devastated please help
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Trust me, you can not make him stop. He acts so weird all the time because he is stoned. Sounds like he can't function without it. You can yell and scream, cry, beg, threaten and stand on your head, it won't make him stop unless he wants to. It is possible that he could because you mentioned that he quit for 6 weeks. He sneaks around and acts strange probably because he is getting paranoid. This is your call. If you feel you can get him the help he needs to save your family or throw in the towel. Sounds like you really care about him and you don't want to loose your family. What was his response when you told him you wanted to be with a normal man?
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