about 8 weeks ago.. this may sound really dumb but a guy fingered me. im not too positive whether or not he touched himself before that. about 3 weeks later ive been having gas, diarrhea(sp?), and cramping like im about to start my period. about a week ago i noticed some pink after urination.. but stopped about an hour later. belly button area has been hard. oh and ive been having discharge and tender breasts. i was supposed to start my period about 3 weeks ago but im generally irregular.

i havent have back cramps, or increase in appetite(matter of fact i lost a pound or two since), or havent been tired at all..
am i pregnant?

i did a take home test about a week after i was supposed to start my period. it came out negative.

please please please reply, i will be forever grateful.